Getting ticked off

United States
September 18, 2007 11:20am CST
hey everybody am i wrong to assume that my husband just wants to sleep all the damn day long? here's the situation: my daughter is watching little einsteinsmon tv and hes like man emma, your show is making daddy sleepy. so he proceeds to go upstairs, and im like why do you always have to go to sleep? hes like do you know how much sleep im going to be getting starting next week? (my husband is in the navy and he goes to his new command next week) i was like whatever..and he was like..dont treat me like that i just stared at him. he then went upstairs in a huff. now im sitting here getting ticked off because hes been doing this for the past few days now. almost like he doesnt want to spend time with his family that hes not going to be seeing. im right in being mad right? i mean..he treats me more like crap than i treat him. i do all the cooking, cleaning, taking care of the kids, all he does right now is play xbox and look at stuff on the internet. i understand hes in the navy and i cant expect too much from him housewise, but hes been on leave for the past 3 weeks. plenty of time to get used to the idea of being on leave. hes not going to be seeing me and the kids for a very long time afterwards. granted that we do live only 3 hours away from each other, hes going to be going on deployment and whatnot. i would want to be with my family for that duration of time and not be an a$$ about everything. but whatever. what do you guys think? any thoughts or suggestions?
1 response
• United States
18 Sep 07
My suggestion is to sit down and talk to your husband before he leaves. Don't be angry with each other - just talk and let each other know how you feel. If you do it without anger then you will hear each other a lot better than being snippy with each other.