People are changing

Change is one thing that doesn't change - it happens all the time! Not just the people, everything changes over a period of time. And I think we can't blame something body because he or she has changed. Its just the circumstances and the stage in their life that could change them. You need to realise that change is inevitable and if we don't change with time, we may loose our place in the society. This is actually a very interesting topic that you have raised. It will make people think about change! Thank you!

people have changed over the years, especially for those that live in the city. things are not the way they used to be when i grew up. the saying it takes a tribe to raise a child, really applied then...your neighbors watch your children as if they were their own. but now days, with all that's going on, it's nearly impossible to watch your own...let alone someone else's ! being raised in the city, i know just how snobish, arrognant and rude people can be and it seems to have gotten worse over the yrs. but it has to be this way now. the young people didn't grow up as i did. but, in order to survive working & living in the city now days, you've got to push, shove, scratch and bite your way to get anywhere or get swallowed up & spit out, stepped on & kicked to the curb or worse. it has become a matter of survival, which is sad because we are all striving for the same things, usually! believe it or not, i made the choice as a young teen, this city living was not the life i wanted to live. there was just too much choas, noise, rude behavors from others etc. i needed the fresh air, the tree's, the wildlife etc that rural living offered. but one of my best example of the difference of city living vs counrty living is...neighbors. in the city you barely know your neighbors now days. no one lends a hand when help is needed because sometimes it can be dangerous. but in a rural area, such as the one i live in now, your neighbors are friendly and always willing to lend a hand when you need it. or another is, if your stuck on the side of the road and need help...in the city they usually just drive on by never giving you or your situation a second thought. but here, you have people stop to help you and this is done without them expecting anything in return, something that i believe is rare with city folk. and as far a job's are concerned, you'll find one in a rural area. and there are places that are rural but that are close enough to a "city" that you may be able to find a job that pays close to what your getting now but, the pace is certainly going to be slower & easier. and even if it didn't pay as much as your city paycheck, you cost of living goes down a tad depending on where it is you move to. but the quality of life, is priceless in my opinion ! besides, look what it is costing you, living in the city...your health is harmed the most with air pollution, the hurried pace, the stresses etc. so, if your needing to change your pace of life..go country ! so,with all that said....do i sense you may be needing a change in lifestyle... city vs country ? if this is true, follow your heart and just do it. if you think about it too much, you'll never leave and you'll never know what your missing. jump in feet first and you'll find yourself thinking, why didn't i do this earlier ! i certainly did and have never had any regrets ! lol stay well !

Sounds like you are too throu with the city folks, sorry to say it doesnt get any better no matter where you go. Sorry for your annoying days. I hope everything gets better for you.