What a day! Is it no wonder, I'm losing my mind?

Oh beinda That has to be so discouraging. When I was frist married to my ex he was quiting his job and we would have to move ever 3 months he was a farm worker. It really was discouraging not being ablr to depend on haveing a place to live ever 3 to 4 months. He was such a child. I finally got rid of him after 14 years. I soon figured that if I had to raise my 4 kids by myself it was worth not haveing a fife one around.

Your husband's behaviour must surely drive you demented?? I'm having an ok day. The wind is not howling,thank goodness. The goat and the cat have been sitting together outside in the sunshine. (It's the first time I've seen Pickles sit down with Banjo, he's usually trying to make him play and Banjo has to run away.) I took photos but not sure how they worked. I have a lovely bruise where Pickles got me yesterday with one of his horns...he even broke the skin through my track pants. Come and stay with me for a while...we'll have lots of laughs...life isn't meant to be dreary with an irresponsible hubby goofing off in the background. :).

Oh no! I feel so bad for you. What is this mans problem? Send him back to his mom.LOL I know he wont go. Stay strong my friend something always happens to positive people and it will be for the good. Please dont lose your mind!lol Im here to listen to you anytime you want. Big hugs to you.

Sounds like you've had a rough day. As bad as it was though it could of been worse. You may have actually fallen into the cistern and had to have the fire department rescue you. Now that would have been horrible. Look at it this way...tommorrow has to be better. :) **AT PEACE WITHIN** ~~STAND STRONG IN YOUR BELIEFS~~

I am glad you are okay..That is too bad about your husband quitting his job..He didn't seem to be thinking about you at all...When it rains it pours and I hope the clouds clear soon for you...Take care....

oh mah, i'm sorry your going through the same thing again with your husband..i had read some of your discussions about him and his job that he wont last to have..i can only hope for the best for you mah..i wish i can do something to make you feel better..hugs and kisses for you mommy..

Oh boy, that's bad. Job's are hard to find, at least here in Michigan. Why did he quit? The fact that you expected it is awful. That puts a lot of stress on you I would imagine. I hope your arm and foot heal quickly! Where did you come across a cistern?

OMG, that is awful Brenda, I am so sorry to hear of your husband quitting his job, how long does it take for him to get back to work when he does this, I used to be married to one, quit every job he had in 2 weeks, one time I was so proud of him he went a whole month, but it would always take him a good 2 weeks before he would even start looking for work and with 2 small babies in our house at that time I was forever worrrying how the bills were going to be paid. Hugs to you, my friend!

Well hon, as for the falling and hurting yourself part, you can join the club with me, Feona, and Gabs. What a team we'd make! LOL I hope your arm and foot get to feeling better. As for your husband, I'd say give him a good swift kick but then you'd end up hurting your foot and that wouldn't be good. I honestly don't know what to tell you about him hon. My ex was the same way, and it made it very uncomfortable at home because he was always a grouch. Notice I said "EX"? Good luck hon. Big hugs to you sweetie.

Well it is written that the lord will not give us more than we can handle, but like you I have had my days all right. I do feel for you because it is hard being with a man who doesn't hold a job and the older we get the worse it gets. You're in my prayers. Prayer has really helped me this past year with all my health issues and myLot is the best thing that has ever happened to me. I have good friends here. Take care.

I kind of know what you mean.I had a MRI scan.I have a torn tendon in my right arm,arthritis in my shoudlers and back.I have thinning bone mass.I sometimes wonder. I keep on going,they found a spot on one lung,a cyst on one kidney.Went to the doctor yesterday and he found a cyst on my right wrist.What next?Only the Lord does know and he will take care of it all.

well i hope you have better days to come,im sorry to hear about that.trust me we all have some bad days,and i think we all need a break like a nice vacation just all of us.hope it gets better and a great big hug from me to you.smile.pattie