How personal is myLot to you

Everyone has an opinion. Often it is not the same as mine. I didn't see your post. I don't know what the tone of it was. If the tone was like this, then I don't have a problem with it. I get upset when people are confrontational or hateful. Some of the topics on mylot are personal. Some that don't even start out that way become that way. If you read some of my resent questions, esp. Groundhog's Day, you can see how a topic that you didn't think would be really personal, maybe somewhat personal can become extremely personal. As for your original topic. Depends on the family. I've seen it the other way around, or families with two of one or two of the other (i.e. 2 conditional or 2 unconditional). Now adays, any family that has 2 parents, in my country, that live together and can get mad at you at the same time are doing well! Mostly, I'm having fun. Esp. responding to the "If you were a ______________, what would you be?" In the blank could be an animal, a form of transportation, etc. I would say you are a dispassionate writer. Most of us here can be dispassionate about some things and not about others. You said plenty when you said it was admittedly controversial, that right there should let you know that some people will get an attitude. I take mean and hateful opinions personally because the person targets someone to be mean and hateful to. Also there is a lot of trouble caused by this in America right now. People who have had people be mean to them all their lives, real or perceived, start shooting huge numbers of people. Besides life is too short to put up with mean and hateful people. Luckily, most people on Mylot are very king. Take care

I don't get upset when I read things I disagree with, and I don't get upset if people disagree with me, but it does amaze to see people act hatefully through their words. There are a few on here that I have noticed that do that kind of thing - they attack you for your opinion. Most times I do respond with my opinion, or how I feel, not because I am uneducated, but because I am not here to be graded on my writing skills. I am here just because, for fun. So when someone attacks me, I tend to through it aside in my mind and not really worry about it too much. Don't let it discourage you, I try not to. Respond if you feel like, but always try to be the better person. That makes me feel good usually. If I am behaving like a mature adult, then I know I am still okay, and it is the other person who has issues of their own. See, like I said, no facts really, just opinions and feelings, but that is how I usually write on here. SO yup, that's what I do! Good luck to you!

Hi there, what's been up to lately buddy? Well ill go for "IM JUST HAVING SOME FUN" lol No seriously, whenever i am getting a discussion or response that i think it's opposite of what i am believe in, still i tend to listen and know their views as i am an open minded person and i love knowing things with different angle, you know what im sayin man? Have a nice day ahead and happy posting and earning here in myLot. Godspeed, Kiko