The Money or Love
By gary1125
@gary1125 (173)
Australia
September 18, 2007 11:03pm CST
There is always someone says: the love is everything, it's all we need, regardless the money, or the status. Maybe he want the lover story like Titanic, Jack and Lucy. But things happen like this? Yeah, maybe, but the love like Jack and Lucy might not lead them the wedding. Or just could be a excuse of a looser?
And, someone also says: No money, no love. And in my mind it's straightforward, no money, you cannot even live well. How long will your love last? But this still needed some more consideration, often we can get our own love, but maybe you'd better think about the gap of fortune or social status, before you step forward and propose saying: I love you.
Just my opinion about the love, yeah, just a aspect of love, but might be the most important parts, we should keep it in mind. Well, what's your opinion?
Well Here I entitled "No money" just means not big money.
5 responses
@staywithpin (169)
• United States
19 Sep 07
Money is nessary to build the love as you need something to let your beloved happy. You have to buy something for her or take her out for a travel or invite her to watch movies, all of these can't be done without money. But big money is not that important as you can use small money to let your beloved happy, $5 can watch movie, and that's ok if you can invite her to watch movie at the right time,such as her birthday and give her a surprise. Big surpise doesn't need big money, and big surprise can bring the relation to the next level.
@gary1125 (173)
• Australia
19 Sep 07
Yes, you are quite right, money itself means a little, but something behind it is meaningful. The big money means you have the ability to handle something, might your business or your friends circle, otherwise, where is your money come from? Or might mean your tasty or education background different.
If a poor guy love a millionaire's daughter, the guy maybe can afford everything the lover should give, but whether that girl fall in love with him is another question. I'm not sure she will feel that guy without much money is attractive, aren't you?
Just my view, glad to hear your response.Thank you for the comment, willing be a part of discussion.
@mkchaves (530)
• Canada
29 Apr 08
i can be happy and in love without the pleasure of big things, as long as im with the one im happy and im inlove with. but we cant deny the fact that today money is what makes the world go round... its not a choice between the two, we must have both. hrhehehe
@lovelydame3000 (1577)
• India
19 Sep 07
Hi gary1125! I would opt for money. There is nothing in this world you cannot buy if you have money. Your friends, relaives or family would stick to you only to a certain time if you are penniless and you would see a change in their behaviour soon. But if you have money you would see them following you around like a faithful dog. So it is money for me.
@underdogtoo (9579)
• Philippines
29 Apr 08
Money and love are very practical considerations and love without money is not going to mean that money will not always be there. Two people in love can help each other and make it through the lean times and succeed financially in the long run. Money but no love is also something that can change over time if there is an effort to meet halfway. Most of arranged marriages are done with the thought that eventually the newly-married couple will fall in love with each other.
