are you a loner type person or an extrovert/social type in the real world?

I am a writer, not a talker. However, I have no fear of talking to strangers --I am the one who always asks the salesperson--- but that is because I am not going to see them. I am not an extrovert, nor am I an introvert. I am a meditrovert. (I just invented a new word!!!!), that is, I am in between the two. I used to be timid, but that is because I was got snapped at when I opened my mouth, so I first developed a "well if a bridge is out, I am not going to tell you," until I realized that they were not my father, and in a way, I am a bit cautious, and do not share intimate information unless I am sure they will not recognize me if they meet me on the street. I reply to discussions and do go into details, but that is because if I do not, not much cash comes in.

I suffer from severe clinical depression,so it is very difficult for me to get to know people and talk to them. once I get to know someone,and I find the internet a great place to meet them,I am then much better at meeting them in person and able to be open with them.

I am mostly an introvert, but not as much as when I was younger. I don't mind spending time alone, but I enjoy my family and friends, too, and like to get to know new people. I am usually uncomfortable in a crowd of people that I don't know well, but I try to be friendly.

I am more of the introvert, shy type of person. I don't normally start a conversation but I am very approachable. That is, if a stranger starts a conversation with me, I am responsive and friendly. I can also be quite a loner. I am perfectly comfortable doing things by myself like waching a movie or a basketball game, going to the mall, or even traveling.

I am in between. I can be extrovert to people I think are friendly, but not to those who are not. So I think that I am quite influenced by the people around me.

Hi Joshboz, I need both either for extrovert or introvert and I will cycle it depends on the situation around me. The most is to make the conversation into fruitful happening. Let say, I'm talking to you, you take introvert, so I have to take extrovert but I must bear in my mind not to hurts you even on jokes mood. It plays vice-versa to me and just twist and turn of my tongue. In the real world I'm more on the extrovert category. There many advantages of both, either introvert and extrovert side. If you feeling shy, easy josh, you must have many girlfriends. Let say 20 in hand. Just do the talking to them as your practice to be more on the extrovert side. Have jokes and must have more idioms, because idioms are the concise and precise to make our listener to understand as a conclusion to our talking. Happy Posting to you, Joshboz. :::michael:::

i'm extrovering person i speeh to people that not know...i speek m0re whith all........ bye bye myry

Hi joshboz! I guess, I am both. Why do I say that? Well, because there are days that I am extrovert and I just love being around people and there are days that I am an introvert because I tend to hide from the rest of the world. But I am approachable and friendly most of the time especially when I am not in my blue mood. LOL! Take care and have a nice day.

Hello joshboz, I am an extrovert or social type of person in the real world. Generally I am the same type of person I am here in mylot in the way that I respond to discussions. I am very much approachable, friendly and easy to converse with in person. I do get along easily with people that I just met. I don't have a hard time having or starting a conversation with strangers. I think work and my past experiences has contribute to my personality and the way I interact with people. My work involves customer service and daily interaction with people is very common. Once I also worked for a company wherein our clients are all from foreign countries and I have to communicate with them daily through phone and personally when they visit our country.

Real world. hmmm definitely i am bit different here from the real world but that too because of the work i do. otherwise in my normal life i am an extrovert person with a laid back personality. two different combinations:) i know but i am like that. i have been trying to change it but i didnt felt comfortable. i also dont talk but that doesnt mean not at all , i do talk with my friends some times i do exchange gestures with unknown people also just a little cheer to make their day good, some times i do generate discussion and the biggest bad habit i have i have just realized while writing here is that, when i am convincing some one and he is not understanding me, this thing takes me totally outta control and i feel like hitting the other goof person:) and some times when i am participating in some discussion i dono i feel that every one should listen to me and should agree to my point of view by hook or crook:) its another bad habit and i know it comes under emotional stability and personality traits and i am trying hard to control these bad personality traits:)

Yes,I'm the same as you.I'm shy and timid in the real world .I come here to respond just for earning money.:)Look at the earnings of your effort glowing up is a pleasant thing.^-^

This is my life, i use to be a party monger but now all i do is stay on the internet, but its not b/c i chose it that way its b/c i grew out of all my old friends and cant find any new ones. I live in a small town and dont know how to go about meeting new ppl. One day maybe I'll find some cool ppl to hang with and will become social agian I hope anyways

Hello,joshboz. It is hard to say whether I am an introvert or an extrovert person. Nearly all my friends have said to me: when I see you the first time, you are so serious and I think you are not a friendly person. But now, it is believable that you are so lively and humorous. Yes, that is me.

Yes, I'm a loner type of a person. I can stay alone inside my room for the whole day & night without anyone to talk to. Maybe it's my nature since I don't go out that much. But I do make friends, like here at mylot, where I con communicate my ideas. thoughts and feelings.

I was never a loner and I always had the company of family members and friends. Because the family is so big, no one is allowed to be lonely, unless they wanted to be!! That is the great advantage of having people around you. Except at the time of meditation and when I am sleeping, I am always in the company of people and i love that.

hey jb, I can talk to strangers as if I had known them my whole life when it's neccessary (like w/ my job) but in my heart I'm shy when it comes to making new friends. +'s |:)

Not much the same as what I am doing here, because I'm a silent person in the REAL world. But when I'm with my "real" friends, I am as wild as ever. I am a man of few words, for the people whom I'm not used to or don't know that much. I prefer to do more actions than talking, that for me is the most important thing.

I am the type who loves a conversation. It was only when I enjoyed my toastmasters club exposure. I don't think anymore of peoples' judgments regarding my person as long as I know I don't get to offend or act rude, I get along even with strangers. I am amiable and I love meeting new friends.

I have to be very extroverted for the jobs I've had in my life, but I get talked and peopled-out. So then I just prefer to be alone, to read, write for Helium and for Mylot. On days when I don't work, I make one or two phone calls and some days no calls. So I am very outgoing in short bursts. Then I would rather go for walks in the woods, read a book, or anything else, but people. Take care

sometimes loner sometimes social no no i m loner and unsocial i have noy any friend in life but i dont care because real friends infact friends in live can hurt you but online friendship better than inreal why idon t know but this is my choice