People Who Don't Seem to Belong Together

I'm sure that most everybody has seen those what appears to be complete missmatched couples. I'm not sure if they are happier....but something must be working.....or they would not be together. Now I can tell you from my own experience....that a what looks like a perfect matched couple.....doesn't always work well. My Ex and I seemed to be a perfect match....or at least that's what everybody always thought.....I guess we just looked good together.....but in reality that was not the case. Sometimes things are not what they appear to be....no matter how good they look and who knows.....maybe they see something in each other that we can't.

Well, they do say opposites attract but I don't think that's the case all of the time. I can't see Demi Moore with Ashton Kutcher. Now there is a strang match don't you think? My oldest daughter was with her boyfriend for 20 years and thankfully that ended but they were a strange couple to see. She's tall and good looking and he was short and ugly! lol...but they made me some great grandkids! I really can't say if a mismatched couple would be happier or not. I think it depends on the couple.

Sometimes opposites attract because you tend to complement each other. You have more to share with each other. But then again, I hear a lot of people talk about wanting to find someone who they "have a lot in common with". So I don't think there's one definition of a "perfect match." You could be opposites or you could have a lot in common. That's because love can happen in either case. When there's love and a willingness to exert effort on both sides, it will work, whether you look good together or not.

I totally agree with everything you said about these couples being happier than many others! I have came across a lot of couples who you just wouldn't think would even get along and they were so in love and so happy! I guess we all tick differently and these people have good relationships cos they allow each other to be themselves! xxx

Hi there. I have seen and know a few couples that are married and have often wondered why they are together, these couples Im talking about have nothing in common, they fight and carry on, and I ask them why are they together and they have nothing to say... I guess they just love to fight each other, which is crazy if you ask me... I dont know about these couples being happier then those that seem to be a perfect match...

Hi worldwise! I have noticed alot of couples that look like a complete mismatch and I would often say to myself. WOW How did He or She attract Him or Her. I know looks and appearance are not everything but I wonder how did they even connect or come in contact sometimes. My Dad always said opposites attract.

Yes I have but I do not know if they are Happier I know some probably are My Ex Husband and I where the wrong match to but I stuck the Marriage for 21 years and then I couldn't anymore something gave me strength to stand up to him

Well when I met my partner, people always said that about us. I am tall and blonde and Northern European - very "controlled" and "together", and he is short and dark and South American. He drinks coffee - I loathe it! He goes to the gym a lot - I hate exercise! He loved dogs - I prefer cats! About the only thing we ostensibly had in common was the fact we both smoke like chimneys!! But I guess something must have been right as we have lived together over 20 years now - never a cross word, - people say we're the "happiest" couple they've ever met! So sometimes I guess opposites do attract!

Oh god yes!! I know a couple right now that are all wrong for each other.They make each other miserable along with everyone around them.I think it's the fear of being alone thats keeping them together.

Hi again... I think you have made a great observation here. Yes, I have often wondered what lies beneath the outer appearance of some couple's connection. It is true that the 'glue' that holds their relationship together may not be evident to observers they obviously are there for reasons others do not understand. My view of people and their relationships is that we all connect for a reason, season or a lifetime because we are all students and teachers to each other. If inner resonances remain strong and aligned people stay together. If one or the other changes to the point that the lessons are learned or growth is faster or slower they may part ways. It is what makes life so endlessly fascinating..in my view anyway! Good talking points...take care. Raia

Hi!Well, no 2 people are the same at any point of time. Life is all omewhere or other, a difference of opinion arises.But if a couple is terribly mismatched as you say, theymay appear happier, but it is for a very short period.to give an eg... how long would a gold-plated piece shine compared to an actual piece of gold? GOD BLESS!! www.creatingcolourfulfuture.com

yes it is true. it may be due to differences.come what may.but you go back to the same old.they will not learn.

over the past years i havent come across millions of couples like you but i have seen many and it feels that they are made for each other and i also have seen many it feels that they are the perfect mismatch. the mystery is still unsolved for me. why perfect mismatch couples dont understand each other when its easy to understand. why they can not compromise on little things. why do they bring their ego in their family lives. why they think what ever they are doing is right. i am still unable to solve all these:)

well you see, when it comes to relationship one has to be very carefull of some stept to take, not to go into relationship ouy of pitty or infatuation for the other person. if you observe most of us youths do it for compensation. relationship is one thing that can me or rather tell on what your life is going to be like in future. it determines your person and mostly your joy. now in other sense, some are ment to be together but the mental aspect of them is not yet matured, they need to grow, so i tell you two things are involved, is either they are not ment to be together or they need to grow up

its base to both partners feelings, if they want to fight thier marriege over some trials.and decide to fix and go thru.anyway being meant for eachother,its realy hard to tell.becouse we dont have in control to any situation.sometimes people are fall inlove at the wrong time and in the wrong place.so they need to fall apart.