What would you choose?

Well for me I'd rather to choose the man who love me! so I feel spoiled and do what I want him to do...lol...anyway you can learn to love the person someday.Than to the person who doesn't love you but you love him so much! oh! girl! I'm sure theres a lot of tears to shed when you chose the person who doesn't care you at all! beleive me I've done that before!.So I learn and think that I have no tears now to waste.

I can't choose a man I don't love, even if he loved me so much. It wouldn't be fair with the guy. Besides, I don't think I could stand being in an intimate moment with someone I don't have feelings for. Knowing myself, I'd probably choose the man I love so much, and be willing to make sacrifices just to win his love. Well, of course, that is, if he would choose to have a relationship with someone he doesn't love. Sacrifice entails a lot of pain,without the assurance of winning in the end. Things like these are easier said than done, but if a person had better sense, he or she should choose neither one of them.

Neither. I can't hold onto a guy who doesn't love me nor do I want to. I don't want to be with someone who loves me but I don't love so I will stay friends with the guy who loves me and I will look for a guy who loves me that I love. I am married so this is hypothetical but I did have a similar situation once and that is exactly what I did. I couldn't make the one who I loved love me and I didn't love the one who loved me. I am still close friends with one and never saw the other again. And I found someone who I loved and who loved me back. Much better! :)

hmmmmm this sounds complicated huh?well for me id rather choose the one that loves me cuz if ever you will choose the one that you love you will just hurt or maybe even more like beat you in the end. and when the one who loves you atleast you will feel the love and maybe one day u will be develope.

ill keep the one that loves me as my great friend ( if hes still talking to me after being honest.. that i dont love him) and stay single till someone its WORKS with comes along :)XX having both isnt something to sacrific on ever one or the BOTH of u would be miserable :( hope that helped :)XX