have u ever been hurt by the person u loved?

well i dont know whether i am in love or not. but for as long as i have known this girl today for the first time she recieved my call and then asked me to call later. well it has happened just once in past. but i didnt feel anything that time, but dont know why today it made me sad.

"You're only hurt by someone you love..." I heard this before. It means that because you love that person, you get hurt by what they do to you. If somebody else you do not love does the same thing to you, you will not feel anything about it or you can easily tolerate it. Right? But anyway, falling in love is a good feeling that even if you get hurt many times you can still fall in love over and over again. So, I've loved and I got hurt but I can love again. I broke up with my boyfriends because he went on vacation with another girl...that hurts... but after sometime he came back and I was ready to welcome him back, so we are now together again. I guess, its just like that simple to love, unlove, and love again...it's all part of our exercise as a human being.

yes, you really in trouble when you love someone but she hurt you..i had an experience with that, and i think it's a very big hurt i felt..it was almost 3yrs from now when my bf leave me when i'm still pregnant with out baby..without knowing that he has another gf and they already engaged..i want to die that moment and every night i cried that i can't help it..i'm so depressed that time but thank God that i already moved on this time and i'm happy with my daughter..though we don't have any communication with the guy but i already forgiven him..

I had been there... Hurt.. needs time to heal. The hurt is getting heavier when the next month I'd heard she was with somebody else, and they are so lovely, from what my friends who had met her. I was in pain for 5 months trying to recover myself because she was the one I ever love. But, as time passed by and thanks to my friends motivations, I realize it's won't worth by keeping all this inside in myself. I moved on. I think, if I felt this way, did she feel the same way I did. Nope. Then I stand up, and made a new move. At last I found a girl and had been with her more than 2 years. And let bygone be bygone. Maybe the first girl wasn't meant for me. It's now and I stick to what is now in front of me. Move on...

Maybe you should see it as a learning experience. You don't deserve to be hurt by someone you love. And that's NOT love. And knowing you know better next time may keep you from being hurt again. You should love yourself enough to not let someone "torture" you. There's someone better for you and that pain will ease when you find them and they love you for you and wouldn't dream of hurting you. I think everyone gets hurt at one time or another. I have been hurt and it made me realize that anyone would do that to me isn't worth my love!

it's really ironic. the ones who hurt you are the ones you love. well, you'll never be hurt if you don't love the person that hurts you. i think, god designed it that way for us to know who we really care so much. have i been hurt by the one i loved? not the motherly or fatherly or brotherly kind of love, but that of a very special someone, yes. it really hurts so much. to the extent that i had to go to the hospital to undergo some medical check ups only to find out that i am normal. and the only wrong is --- my hurt heart. it was really funny. i spent almost P6,ooo. it was then the time that i denied about what i feel for someone. and now, i am planning on breaking up with her. funny.