is that terrible i always remind the past not the present?
By mari123
@mari123 (1861)
China
September 20, 2007 6:27am CST
since i had very happy working experience last year, and now changed a new position---i dont really feel good recently. the tendency is if the reality is not satisfactory, i will escape to have something nice to think---the past time.
i know clearly to always remind the past is not a good way to go forward in my life, i just cannot help myself to do so...
standing somewhere i dont know now...can you give me any of my ideas? thank you !!!
2 responses
@venous (32)
• India
21 Sep 07
It is the human nature that remebers the good things of past and compares it with present life situations. That is good when it makes us to escape from the hidious things of present for a while, but it is not always best to live in either in past or in future. we always have to make adjustments to suit ouselves. Time is a best healer. Hope your position right now be as satisfactory and aluring as past. All the Best
@williamjisir (22819)
• China
20 Sep 07
I think that it is very natural for us to always think about those good old days when we meet with something not so nice and discouraging. I think that we need to find back that kind of feeling when we feel lost in the real world.
But what is more important for us is to face taday and look forward to the future instead of always missing the past days without taking any action to solve what has happened...
