thinking about cheating?
By brookehaun
@brookehaun (233)
United States
5 responses
@disvachic (10117)
• United States
21 Sep 07
Hi brookehaun,
I am not married but i was in a longterm relationship and I did actually cheat because he was doing me dirty.I know two wrongs dont make a right but I did it but i wish I had just left him instead of cheating because I felt so guilty and it wasnt right.
disvachic
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@talisman (1300)
• United States
21 Sep 07
Never. If I wanted to be with someone else, I wouldn't have married my husband. When you're in a relationship, you make a commitment to being with that person and are saying that you want to be with them, not someone else. If you ever even have thoughts on cheating on them, you shouldn't be with them, simple as that. Cheating is horrible, wrong, and disrespectful to all those involved, whether directly or indirectly.
@TripleS519 (206)
• United States
21 Sep 07
I agree with you that cheating is horrible, wrong etc. But I've never cheated on my husband, but that doesn't mean I don't have thoughts about it. My husband has admitted that he finds other women attrative. And there's no doubt in my mind that the thoughts go further than that. It's just human nature. I know who my husband comes home too. And I know he would NEVER do anything to hurt our marrage. But I don't think it's wrong of him to think about other women. He can look but he can't touch. And same goes for me.
@cudgel (216)
• Nigeria
24 Sep 07
To my perception, if it be only to look but not touch, well i will say its okay, but let get understanding. if your partner does look other man or women too much, definitely she/he will lost in one way or the other.
and if you admitted it that your man or women can look but not touch, i mean if you give him or her much rope to move. then you should not blame him or her further in case any thing funny happen.
many couple had lost their relationship based on this issue.
@cefaz_21 (2596)
• Philippines
21 Sep 07
honestly, yes I had also cheated (if starting to like another guy is cheating) my ex when we were still together and I don't want to justify it by saying because he cheated on me too for the whole duration of our relationship.
But now that I'm married to the best man God had prepared for me..I don't ever think of cheating..:)
@rina08 (68)
• Philippines
21 Sep 07
hi girl!
for me, it didnt came to my mind that i'll go on cheating.
because im so afraiad of karma!.. and id rather have this saying " id rather be fooled than me fooling someone".
though i already experienced from my past bf that he cheated on me, but still i forgive him. And it is just god that will punish those person that cheated to their partners. Hmmm... sorry for those who cheated but that is just my opinion..
And for me i am really a faithful lover...
