what will you do if you're too sick of yourlife?
By alysya
@alysya (159)
Philippines
3 responses
@lecanis (16647)
• Murfreesboro, Tennessee
21 Sep 07
If I'm sick of my life, I change it. =P
I moved almost 1000 miles to get away from an abusive family, and moved in with someone I met on the internet who is now my husband. People thought that move was crazy at the time, but I call it my "jump" and consider it the point at which my life starting getting better.
Even now, if I am in friendships that are making me unhappy I let them go. If I am unhappy with my health, I get medical treatment. If I am unhappy with my relationship with my husband, I tell him to back off from me for a while and give me some alone time. *shrugs* I just make changes wherever I can, and turn my life into something that makes me happy again.
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@raijin (10345)
• Philippines
21 Sep 07
When I feel like having too many problems, I just take it all to rest. My way of escaping reality is to have a vacation, me alone or with friends. By that, I tend to leave my problems at home for a while. With that, I also have the tendency to open up my mind at things. Of course, I'll never actually forget about these problems. I always search for some answers along the way, for me to accept the fact that these things happens for a reason and that there is no burden for us that we cannot handle.
@alysya (159)
• Philippines
22 Sep 07
I wish I could do that, I have 3 kids and what Im frustrated about is that I feel I cannot do everything a lone, I got a p[artner, but it does no good, I once told you im on a business and it's hard keeping a family and doing business without someone helpingyou... Im too tited of everything... mypartner doesn't wantto do a thing to help... he just want to sleep all day... I need help. but it always lead us to fight, I don'tknow,I want to leave him
@raijin (10345)
• Philippines
22 Sep 07
If your current partner is a burden, then leave him at once because he'll only cause you more troubles and worries. You should prioritize yourself and your immindiate family first, because your kids are still young.
That is the best si=uggestion I can give you, you're still too young to waste your life. A mistake cannot be justified by doing another mistake, I hope you see things more clearer with this.
@laurika (4532)
• United States
2 Oct 07
I would probably move or at least take a vocations.It happen to me when i was 19 and was living with my parents.I jsut moved to diferent city, find a job and started on my own.It wasn't easy , but it was solution.I just had to run taht time from everything and everyone.Even if my mum, would never forgive me that, I know I made the right thing to survive and started life on my own.If I can give you adice, take a break from everything and think what you really want in your life and where to go.And than just realize it.It would be hard, but you would be once proud of yourself taht you did it.
