Cheating

Cheating your spouse.. oh that is really bad.. its not healthy at all. Oh yes.. you have to inform your friend(The Husband) about this.. pity him. He might have trusted her so much, believe her so much and she do that to him in return? Its not fair.. I know.. in this situations you definitely will loose one friend.. if you tell her husband.. you might loose her friendship.. but if ever u never tell HIM.. if he find out.. you might loose HIM.. As for me.. i rather loose her then him.. why wanna support someone who is cheating again and again. She have told you she wont do it again.. but.. the guy keep going to her house.. mean.. she is just try to cover up to you... what she said to you.. just a lie. Do something... its totally wrong for cheating a spouse who have full faith and trust on you.

I think someone needs to know! Cheating is not ok in my book, and I would appreciate it so much if my friend told me the truth about my husband (well in this case wife) but I think as a friend you should definately tell your buddy to watch out! Because it will all come out eventually and if your friend finds out you knew and didn't say anything he'll hate you too!!! do the right thing!!

Wow. This is a tough decision. Yes, I think you shoudl tell your friend what you saw, but you need to be prepaired for the reprocussions. You will probably end up loosing her as a friend, and there is always the chance that the hubby may get angry with you for being a reason why his marriage is ruined. Granted, it is not a rational way for him to think, but there is the chance that, in his greif and state of mind, he will do that. So, you may also end up loosing him as a friend for awhile. -hugs- Good luck though.

Dont tell him. Its not your problem. Borrow someones problems and you repay them tenfold is a very good saying. If you tell you might cause a breakup between a couple that works out fine enough. You may cause friends to not talk to each other again. You might make you friends fight. And you might loose your friend as a friend. Dont go down that road mate, its the wifes problem, not yours. I personally live by the rule: my gf can cheat on me all she wants, as long as: She is discreet, protected and dont get feelings tangled into it. I think this is the only way to really have a decent long time relationship, as most humans arent build for monogamous relationships. And if my personal sexdrive is at a low for a while, why shouldnt she be allowed to keep up hers. She might even learn something, or return with even more feelings towards me because her needs where met. Just give it a break, talk to her to talk to your friend, that is your ONLY option. You telling is the worst option and shouldnt even be considered. Its not your problem, you didnt do anything wrong, but trust me... if you tell, youll be blamed.

It's too flimflam!You look him's your goodfriend,you should tell him,i think...

Pick you the phone and go tell your friend before he ruins his life with that B*TCh!

You should definently tell him. It's not fair to him, he should know about his unfaithful partner. I would want to know if it were me. Of course it is hard to tell him, but in the long run, it's best for him to know.

Yes, but you might want to get some evidence on record. If you have a video camera, at least try to record the loverboy going to their house everyday. It would be better if you can record the actual lovemaking, but you don't have to. Just the daily visits alone would convince the husband that something's going on.

Hi, I think you should inform the husband. That is the best you can do to help him. The wife is obviously a cheater so you must help the man by disclosing the truth. Anyways cheating doesn't have a long life. The sooner the man knows the truth the better. If you want you can first warn your friend that if she continues this, you will have to disclose this to her husband. But, anyway you have to tell truth to her husband.

cheating i know it will hurt to tell but i think you shoudl let them no because a good friend will tell there friend what is going down behind her back when she is not around!!!!!!!

I think that you should. I mean, if he finds out and then finds out that you knew...it could cost you a friendship or even an accusation that you were in on it. You don't need that and if you are really good friends with this person, he deserves to know what is happening.

Well better tell your friend although he might get desperated at the news. But we have to face the music. He is the husband and shouldn't be put in the dark concerning this kind of affairs. Let him know the truth and he has the right to make decisions. I'm in a relationship. If I am the husband, I would appreciate my friend tell me this.

I would feel very torn in this situation. I would want my friend to know the truth but I wouldn't want to be the one to tell him. I would be afraid that if I told him, he would take his hurt feelings out on me or maybe not even believe me and then where would our friendship be? I think that I would maybe say that I saw so-and-so stop by his house frequently during the day and let him piece it together from there.