Would you go into a love realtionship with a long term friend?

@megumiart (3771)
United States
September 21, 2007 4:57pm CST
Would you become boy/girlfriend with someone you've been friends with since childhood?
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10 responses
• Philippines
23 Sep 07
Sure! Why not. I think that is a very good start to have a healthy relationship. Having an affair with your close friend is such a wonderful start especially if both the two of you noticed that you were inlove with each other and that both of you were really attracted with the overall quality and personality of each other. Actually, this kind of start to be engaged in a serious relationship does produce a long-lasting or lifetime relationship mostly. It is because you have known him/her much better. In light of the fact that you have a long-term relationship as a friend, this would be of great advantage if you want to have a long-term partner in life. Have a nice day!
@austere (2812)
• Philippines
22 Sep 07
it depends. if we really are in love with each other then why not?! it will be much safer since we both know each other since time immemorial. we already feel comfortable with each other and we don't need to spend time to know each other coz we've been friends since forever. the only thing we must give importance in this kind of relationship is that we do not destroy the friendship whenever the time will come that the boyfriend - girlfriend part will have to part ways. friendship should stay.
@tigertang (1749)
• Singapore
25 Sep 07
Why wouldn't one go into a lovers relationship if the chemistry is right? Sometimes people spend lots of time together and find that feelings develop. Why shouldn't things happen?
@SViswan (12051)
• India
23 Sep 07
I don't see why not if you have similar interests. If we both like each other and would want to know if we can take the relationship further, I wouldn't mind at all. I think the best relationship is based on friendship first.
@phayeth (519)
• Philippines
25 Sep 07
yes.. co'z i'll be at peace with him at least he knows all about me.. my characteristics, my hobbies and many more..
@sheerjane (112)
• China
23 Sep 07
I think i would not ..
24 Sep 07
If I would get a chance ,I will say "not". I have got a friend before.And we usually share feeling both happiness and sadness. Last year ,we go into love relationship with hime. And we have sweet memory yet.However we ended up our love-relationship.It means that I lost a good friend now.So it is not wise to go into love relationship with long term friends.
@cherriemae (3370)
• Philippines
22 Sep 07
i think it's up to the both of you..when each party is agree or have the special feelings to each other, why not..i mean, it's also important to a relationship that will be friends first so that you will find the positive and negative attitude of one another and in that experience you can think that if you really love this person because you already know him..it's only my opinion..
@clocks123 (1225)
• United States
22 Sep 07
usually not because that person is just a friend to me however do you have feelings more than a friendship with your friend tell them see how they feel then go from there
@anuj291 (575)
• India
22 Sep 07
fallin for a person who u have known for long is perfect and kinda like fairytale its perfect since u already know each others flaws and all its like startin on the 15th date i guess this happ is the best thanx
22 Sep 07
maybe if i really really liked them. but i normally won't cause that might ruin everything.