Leaving or being left behind.

for me, the harder to deal with is being left behind..i already been in that situation that my bf leave me the fact that i'm pregnant with our baby..it makes me depressed and i cried every night and i don't know what to do, and i think to end up my self..but it was 3yrs from now..it's harder being left behind so i'd rather leave a person..but it's hard too coz i already know the feeling of being left..

I think what hurt most is being left behind by your partner. Actually, it could really make you depressed especially if you have a memorable days being together with your partner and that you would not really forget it because of the strong bonding that you experienced with him/her. Fortunately, it did not happen to me yet, neither I want to experience that kind of situation. In this situation, you are being test of how brave enough you are to face these trials. I know it is not easy to cope up if you are in the process of getting depressed, but I think counseling from family members, relatives, or friends may help suppress the pain that you feel inside. I hope this would not happen to anybody. Have a great day!

I find it is easier to leave than to be left behind. Both have happened to me. The last relationship that I was in ended because I told him to leave. He whimpered and whined. It was easier to get over it when I was the one to do the booting.

Both of them occured to me, being the one left behind and the one who left/walk away from a relationship. I also think that the one being left behind is the hardest, because the feeling of caring and loving is still there and it hurts us seeing the one's we love walking away from us. It's really tough, heart-breaking and with the thought of forgetting about the past things that has happened is really depressing. As for leaving or walking away from our relationship, I guess it is easy because we know that the feelings we have for our partners are all but gone and that the only thing we could do is to make it formal or do it in a nice way..

My boyfriend left me to go to Canada. He didn't dump me or anything, we decided to continue our relationship. It still hurts just thinking about the day he said goodbye. I trust him, and I know he will keep his promise that he will come back for me, but its really hard to wait, and I can't do anything about it. That's what's hardest. Waiting for something, and the knowledge that you can't do anything but.

Being left behind. The person leaving the relationship is doing so because they are ready to move on. The person left behind is often in shock or denial and most times doesn't understand why. That is why so many people say they need closure. They need to understand why the relationship ended and if they were the cause of it and if they weren't what was the exact cause? Many of my girlfriends have been so heartbroken and blame themselves that they weren't worthy or something and it takes a long time to move on. They feel as though they have been wronged. I know when it has happened to me when I was younger when I did get to talk to that person down the road and get closer it was much easier to move on.