crush or love?
By felixfeesh
@felixfeesh (36)
Belize
October 27, 2006 11:56am CST
When does it stop being a crush and starts being love? Please help me clearly define the two? Are they related? Does having a crush becomes being in-love or are you suppose to have a crush on your love? um confusing isn't it.
2 responses
@pina_land (250)
• Singapore
27 Oct 06
I think both of them is almost the same. But to me, crush is only temporary while falling in love lasts longer. U know what i mean?? You can have a crush on somebody and you will always think how nice it is to be her boyfriend or girlfriend. You may easily find his or her replacement in a short time, say 2 weeks or 1 month or whatever. On the other hand, when you fall in love with someone, you want to be his or her partner in life and not just someone who you just want to spend you leisure time with. I guess love is more long-lasting.
that's my opinion.
@felixfeesh (36)
• Belize
27 Oct 06
thank for your comment. a replacement for him can never be found nor would i look. this feeling has been in me over a year now and i cant think of anyone else. i'm happy to say it's not one-sided, thanks again for your comment.
@prue187 (517)
• United States
27 Oct 06
Kind of confusing. Love for me is something that is mutual and is way a deeper feeling for an individual. When your in love It seems like you wanted to be with the person all the time and you can't stop thinking about him. Having a crush can somehow lead you to falling in love with the person bust mostly it's crush is merely infatuation, defined as short-lived passion. hope this helps
