how do you make your girl/boy friend happy,when she/he is angry

"when women drown in middle of their well, it's time to make them as soon as possible make her drown to the well base to get her back to surface..." basically, women's nature is about fulfilling their needs of to be listened. The moment is in right here, when she is angry. You need to listen to her, -symphaty, show your intention and feel your way just like you are feeling that too. -emphaty, this is hardest part, you really needs to make your brain act fast and decide the right phrase to show your intention and continue dig up what is her problem. One wrong chain-connection, no more informations will be provided. women will not be easily saying out their problems, before she feels --SECURE-- what is secure in here, even if you are his b/f or hubby, if you are in no state of listened or providing the security, she will not giving out her "information" easily. It's not wrong, it's not about not-trusting you. It's their nature. The problem is, when she had reach the base of the well. To men, the language is rather a bit sticky. Sticky to men, sounds like she is blaming the man. But she is not for that intention. She just needs you to listen to her. Listen is not using ears. but using your emphaty and symphaty, your heart, your intention. Deadly phrase if you shoot out,"I'm listening now." She will shut the door and no more conversation later. Women will get better if "the problems inside their feelings had been distributed for others who is really "Listened" to her." See why they prefer talk amongst their women's friend. Because they know how to communicate and showing the Security. :)

I just give him space. Seems like he's mad at me all the time, these days.