I have to say a speech and I need help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Have you been in that situation? Can you relate a personal experience in such a general way that it touches most of the people there? Most speeches I have done involved relating generally my experience to as many people as I could. Since I haven't had any realtives or friends murdered by someone, I would beg off the speech. I would ask that they elect someone who can relate. But I'm not you. Take care and good luck because someone really needs to say something.

What should be said is what comes from the heart. How does it feel to lose someone that was a murder victim? How does it feel to know that their life was taken early? How can lives be saved from a murderer? Is there a way it can be prevented? Are there signs or signals we can learn from that show from a potential murderer? I would ask those questions and come up with a few ideas for answers and then name a few people that have been victims. And a prayer at the end.

Just speak from the heart. I would say something about being part of a group that no one wants to be part of. Speak of your situation. Many probably already know, but still talk about it. Talking about your loved one, keeps his memory alive by sharing his story. Maybe his story will help others. On the lines like this: Thank you for coming today on this day of remembrance of our loved ones that was taken from us to far before there time. To be surrounded by a wonderful group of people that have lost someone so close to there hearts, then talk about being part of a group that no one ever wants to join. I'm in this group as well. On Oct 14, 1998 my brother was taken from my family by the hands of a sick person, along with my cousin. Then just talk about your son. Talk about what families actually need after such a horroric event happens. If I was giving the speech, I would say something on the lines that families shouldn't be hounded by bill collectors from hospitals and other places after a loved one was murdered. It took my mom almost 5-6 years to pay off my brother's hospital bill. I hope any of this helps. When is the National Day of Rememberance for Murder Victims?

well you need to tell them not to have the murderer. even though it would be hurtful for them to forgive but they should forgive the murderer. forgiveness should be the key to restore their life. they should not forget the lives of their love ones who were victims. the lives of their love ones should be their inspiration for living. the lives of their love ones who were victims should be their own inspiration for living their lives. well that would be one of your points in your speech. just relax. say anything you want but always touch the emotions of your audience.

You can do something totaly differnt. Why dont you write a letter to your son things that you wished you told and said to him, your special moments with him things that you can never do with him, what he ment to you and what your life is like after he was taken from you. That way its not a speech as such and you can have some healing from that. I do not imagine to know how you feel and I wont pretend that I do. I could never forgive a person that would harm someone I love so if someone started "preaching" about forgivenes I would not listen and remember this is for the victoms and their family its not about the person who did it. All the best.

you should talk about your country and the future.you also talk abut yourself feel