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I know the feeling. My husband is a soldier and whenever he has some of the other soldiers come over I feel totally invisible. Why is it that our husbands seem to think that when there are other people over that we don't exist? Although I might add my husband has became a little better about knowing that I actually exist when they come over, which I am really glad for. But I am sure everything will get better for you.

Why don't you ask him to hold you? Tell him that you need for example 30 minutes a day with him without any distractions (no phones, no TV, just the two of you having some quality time together). I find that it's the easiest solution for this kind of problem. The thing is, he probably doesn't know what you need and how much you need it. But tell him gently, not in a nagging way and pick the right timing to do it. Tell him that you know he's busy, but it'd make you happier if he can spend a bit more time with you every day and that's all you're asking.