Who will bring to your mind first when you are sadness?
By cici6880
@cici6880 (656)
China
September 23, 2007 9:25am CST
Mom is the first person who I bethink when I feel chagrin or angry.Once I had a wrangle with my roommate and both of us seemed to be strangers for about a week. I feel so upset and uncomfortable further more my examination got a bad point at that time.I gave my mother a ring in a evening and I cried my eyes out with my words keeping on.I felt better after hang up the phone.I am not worried about losing my face in front my mother . She always comforts me and makes me calm down.Who is the person you look after for comfort?
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9 responses
@christineli (525)
• Philippines
24 Sep 07
Hello cici6880 :)
I'm not really a religious person, but when I'm sad, I just kneel and cry to God. Sometimes I don't say anything but just cry my heart out. Often, I would feel better after that ..
@aflyingbutterfly87 (16)
• China
24 Sep 07
I didn't think this question untill these days i occationally figure out everytime when i'm sad the first person i will contact is my friend, the person who have not seen each other for a long time, but i'm sure i can trust him and he can gave me the comfort and good advice.
I don't want to tell my parents when i was down ,coz i don't want them worry about me.Many thanks to my friend these years company with me when i was sad, i want to say .
@lecanis (16647)
• Murfreesboro, Tennessee
23 Sep 07
There have been different people I looked to for comfort throughout my life. My great-grandmother when I was very young. She has passed away, but I still sometimes when I need comfort wear a necklace that was left to me by her, and it helps.
Since then it has mostly been friends that have been my comfort. The past few years, it seems online friends have held that role more than offline ones. I am lucky in that I have had many people to listen to my problems over the years... but unlucky in that I can't seem to hold onto any one person who will always play that role in my life.
@wonderful1 (2075)
• China
28 Sep 07
mom is the first person when i am sad, but i can't give her a call when i am sad. we are live in two cities, and it is far way from each other, if she knows i'm sad, then she must be worried about me, so i often give my mom a call when i am happy. if i'm in bad mood when my mom gives me a call, then i will make me happy in the phone.
now i live with my boyfriend in the same city, so i will give him a call when i am sad. then i will be better after hearing his voice. he thinks i'm still a little girl, so he takes care of me anytime.
@Aileen6 (5)
• United States
23 Sep 07
That is nice you have someone to go to. I have no one really.Well, that's a big fat LIE, I do pray a lot and I go to the Lord with my woes. My mum is sick with cancer and my brother is B-Polar. I can't go to my sister because she will blab to mom and mom will blab to brother and they both have their own problems. I never even get askes how my day was and I work 9-10 hrs a day and clean up after two people, two dogs and two cats! Be thankful you have a warm voice to lean on!
@cici6880 (656)
• China
24 Sep 07
Yea,I'm a lucy one.Although you with your woes alone before you will find a way to say them out here.We are strangers almost and we are apart by the Pacific Ocean but you can abreact your sadness maybe I can't give your some useful advices but you will more comfortable if you don't hide them in your heart.Be happy everyday, my friend!
@ssf12ster (488)
• India
24 Sep 07
normalyy i think about the person who made me feel sad and i feel sorry and think about him only and feel that he should be counselled if did any bad there.u need to fite and then make up again dear very simple as that otherwise u will have a lot of people iggying u.!
@lgwlong (199)
• China
24 Sep 07
when i am still a tudent,i will call my friend ,tell them what i feel ,then i will feel better.but now ,i will call my wife firstly
@gaojunxin_2007 (1)
• China
24 Sep 07
yes I am agree with you.When i am in trouble,i always want my mother to help me or give me some adive
