girls: who can understand them?
By adityamandan
@adityamandan (102)
India
2 responses
@stella1989 (2274)
• India
25 Sep 07
In my case it is a little different!!
I find it difficult to understand BOYS..!!
Actually the thing is..-
"Girls are very simple but yet unpredictable,on the other hand boys are actually complicated but very predictable!!"
Thats how it goes..!
And if you are in a relationship..things get solved by themselvs if you start caring about what he/she wants rather than your own needs are!!
As its all about giving..!!
a relationship consits of learning together,knowing eahc other, and gorwing with each other and within each other!!!
And this understanding thing actually comes after YEARS of work..!
Ever go and visit an old couple. YOu will come to know the answer for your question very easily.
They both just know what each of them wants!!
And remember exceptions can also occur!!
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@aowaow (1516)
• Indonesia
24 Sep 07
just follow the wave.
you said, crazy stuff is because their nature is different to us. And so is to them.
They think we are hard to understand for them. But they said it out with different way.
if you are a man and trying to understand a girl, it sounds like chasing ghost. We (men) had totally different way of making a perspective. You can only melt yours to mix with theirs. That's the way it is.
Because if you are going too far and following them too deep inside their area, you will lost yourself. That will be also losing your attractiveness to them.
Just follow the wave, and keep all in a good balancing.
@adityamandan (102)
• India
25 Sep 07
well you make me feel very bad about myself with that. well i think thats one thing most people lack. they dont try to understand the needs of other people not just girls. because they think if they try to understand other people, then the people surrounding them and the person involved would that that you are chasing. but i dont take it that way. i call it giving your relationship time so that it longs last maybe a lifetime.