How weird does something have to be before it considered KINKY

I never considered myself kinky until i started getting compared to other girls, then it made me pretty self conscious... but not enough to stop me lol. Just enough to stop me from talking about a lot of things that I like. I don't know what someone else would have to do for me to consider them kinky tho... and i don't think of kinky as a bad thing either! lol

I suppose for me the word "kinky" really has no meaning..I mean to many ppl 3-somes or bondage is considered "kinky" to me its just another way to have fun and enjoy our sexuality, bodies, companionship etc etc...I'm a huge fan of the BDSM scene (though not active in a few yrs now unfortunately) for example and I love to be adventurous sexually, always have, but the things I'm into IMO aren't "kinky" there just what I enjoy..make sense?