Why our own family could be more annoying than our friends?

Hi sis_syuku.. Welcome to myLot. First of all, I really do not know the interpretation behind your question. I just hope I would not be mistaken answering your question. Our family really knows best for us. They do everything for the benefit of us. They want us to grow old with discipline in ourselves and of course to be a better person. Sometimes, what we decide seemed to be against with the decision of our family and, in that manner, we tend to disobey them and we go for what we wanted to do. Of course, our parents will be so strict with us because we are trying to disobey them and, in that way, we think that we hurt much with that kind of situation. If I am not mistaken with the interpretation, there is no reason to be hurt. When they are so strict with you, they are only concerned with you. No one family would let their own children be in the wrong way or path. So never try to think of being hurt. Sometimes, they can annoy your life, but not to the fact that they do it intentionally, but rather than they do it because they loved you. Always think the positive outcome and not the negative ones. I hope I was able to answer your question. Have a nice day and God bless!

Atleast you can choose your friends, you're stuck with your family however they come. I've noticed I put up with people in my family that I wouldn't normally if they were strangers.