How do you deal if your first love is the friend of your current loveone?

aaaaaawww... that's under the belt. i know exactly what you mean.. i'm in the same position.. both longterm relations and now they just happen to know each other and be friends. Well, it all depends of course on the exact type of relation you had with the first one and how the current one evolved. They'll sure become close and inevitably start talking about you.. good and bad parts both.. I personally quite dislike it but i can't front. Your current might find out things she might probably never had and the other one might want you back lol.. I'm thinking of playing a hoax on them both like pretend to find myself a new girl just to see them talkin then :))