Pre Wedding Jitters...

I hope you will forgive me if I fail to offer any useful advice but I do want to congratulate you! I hope you enjoy a great life with your love.

What a surprise!!! Eunice great to hear from you after a long long time. Congratulations! Eunice, as far as I know, you two kind of know each other for quite some time now. This kind of hitches are obvious for you are going to take the biggest decision in life but I feel it all depends on how we handle it. See, oddities will come, in every relationship it comes but try to overcome it with poise and wisdom. Understanding, trust and compromise are the hey words beside love. I know you two are mature enough. Let's not discuss what could be just enjoy the moment, have fun, plan for your wedding, go shopping bigtime and even enjoy the 'jitters'. Do keep us updated. we all miss you here. love and hugs.

If you are happy and you both are close not just physicaly but also in mind then things will work out awsome i remember how afraid i was when i was getting ready to get married to my hubby almost a year and half ago but we still to this day have as much love and intamacy as we did 3 years ago when we first started dating so good luck in your up coming wedding!!!!!!!!!!!

I can't answer to your question, your pre wedding jitters questionsbut I am sure that you on the right way and only in the future will know. Anyway do not worry I am sure that he is the right one and specially that he is a lucky boy because he found you.

I experienced the jitters right up until we had our first squabble over something stupid not 10 minutes after we were married. I just clenched my teeth, smiled and said "I will." As long as you know in your heart you are doing the right thing for yourself and your bf when you marry, the jitters are a sign of entering into a new way of life. If you have doubts, then the jitters are a red flag. Good luck & I wish you and your fiance the happiest of marriages.

Congratulations! Sorry, was out of action as I was expecting and have just given birth to a healthy baby boy! Sometimes, don't think so much about it, too many thoughts give you stress and you start doubting. Most simple and important thing is that you enter into a marriage with TWO EYES WIDE, after married, maybe can close one eye. Most will enter a marriage with both eyes closed as it's a lovey dovey situation, but after married, both eyes are wide open and you start to see flaw, and by then, hard to close even one eye! heehee.. All the best! Check out my boy's picture.

Oh congratulations! I have big issues with brides that are full of nerves. I believe if you are not 100% confident you shouldnt go through with it. Asking questions is healthy though, could you perhaps both attend some kind of prewedding courses through your church?

Congratulations my dear friend. I was so excited to see that you are getting married. I wish you and your fiance the best and all the happiness in the world. He is a lucky guy to get married to such a wonderful lady and person like you. I have not been in your position yet as I got rejected for marriage a long time ago. I am sure it has to be a nervous time for both of you.

It´s good to hear from you again, euniceeleanor. I don´t want to minimize your problem, but it´s quite normal to be nervous and have doubts before you get married. I´ve met many women who experienced this before the ceremony and it happened to me too. I can only advice you to go for it. Marriage like everything else in life is a risk. You never know what might come out of it. But if you trust and love each other it´s well worth taking the risk. Think positive and everything will be alright. Congratulations, dear friend. Dana

why sudden doubts eunice. You know I would surely take a step back and have a look at relationship from distance and be sure once more, if I were you. I also married my sweet heart and it turned out to be fine but I never doubted that. If you have such doubts better get away and make sure that you are ready.

Well Sweetie it is good to see you again and of course Congratulations It is very normal what you are going through believe me just do not let it get the better of you Listen to your Heart and your mind When you get married it does slightly change and it will only get boring if you let it So all you need to keep when you get married is your love trust and friendship like you are now never let that change But what you are going through is very normal and it is still a year away Sweetie so if you have doubts that he is the one you can still act on it Love and Hugs to you Sweetie

That's wonderful news ,Eunice.Congratulation to both of you.Since i have not yet married i can't help much to comments.I hope that you will be able to answer your doubts before the wedding day.Good luck.