A third party?

Its kind of wierd. Most guys usually jump for this type of opportunity, but I dont either. I used to believe that I would love to have this done in my life, but now after dating the same girl for almost 5 years, i couldnt even consider it. I guess I just love her to much to even want to do that. Im sure your husband loves you so much that he wouldnt want to put your relationship in an awkward state. Just my opinion. Good luck.

I have never gone though with this. I suggested it with my husband and we found someone, but then decided not to becaue we didn't want things to get confusing or weird, since the girl was a close friend of mine. I have always wanted to try it but I guess the time for just isn't right yet.

First off I thought you meant that the third party would be another man so that you could really make a 'pig' of yourself and get 'double teamed' as they say - one in the front and one in the back at the same time. Now that would really call for an understanding husband to grant you your wish. haha Any volunteers here? Now don't all push - just line up and get it out for inspection and selection. haha My wife? She can't even cope with me let alone another another weapon flashing around the bedroom! haha.

spice up by adding someone in your bed room. its a quite weird idea with thought provoking discussion but if you dont want or have possessiveness of your partner than i would say Go ahead. and if you really love and possess your partner you would let him or her go close to some one else:)

don't bring anyone else into your marriage. especially in the bedroom. just because you're doing it in front of your husband doesn't mean it isn't cheating. i understand that you may be bored, but you must think of another way to spice things up. try something out of cosmopolitan magazine, they offer crazy positions honestly...what is the point of getting married if you're gonna sleep with other people?