what to do with a brother in law that keeps asking

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every time my brother in law comes over he asks if we have this or have that that he could barrow and then he never brings the stuff back. Well he showed up yesterday and asked to barrow our extra tv and I told him that when he returns all the other stuff he barrowed he could barrow the tv for 1 week. He clams that he doesn't have the things anymore and that they got lost in the move. What move you live in the shelter I said. I am thinking that he comes over to get the stuff just to sell for drug money. My husband is a sucker to this fact but I have seen the light. This man is a begger and a free loader of the highest point. He finaaly got a job in which he works 2 days a week just so he can stay on welfare in which he brought that up too. He is getting cut off from welfare and he needs to move out of the shelter for 2 weeks then can go back. What?? If I had the chance to better myself then I would do it without barrowing things to sell for drugs or alchol for me and my so called buddies. He really needs to get his act together. But I did the tough love on this one as the tv was my grandson's that I had bought for his third birthday last July so he could watch his DVD's on and that is not leaving my home for no reason. Was I too harch as my husband says? hugs