Do you have to pay someone to listen to you?

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Am I wrong if I assume that most of us want to talk rather than listen? Well, most people I hang around with want to talk about themselves. They want people to listen to their happiness, bitterness, sadness, disappointments, success, failures and so on. Don't get me wrong, I love listening to their tales. But when there are times when it's me who wants to talk, they don't listen much. They don't seem to want to pay attention because they're thinking about what they're going to say or share next. I did something that made them listen to everything that I said. I invited some of my friends to lunch one Sunday morning. They were happy because I told them that I was going to treat them. I ordered their favorite food and drinks. Once we started eating, I slowly tried opening up to them. I was surprised because all of them got their eyes glued on me, nodded their head and commented about it. All throughout lunch time, I was the one who went on talking and they all listened. They never opened a single topic about themselves. Well, that worked out. Usually, when we have lunch or we do other activities, they're usually the ones who talk. Actually all of them talk that it all ends up with nobody listening. It's kind of funny when I look at them babbling about their life. But when I paid for their lunches, they shut up and listened to my stories. Do I feel bad about it? A little. It's like the only way to repay me for the treat is to force themselves to listen to me. What do you guys think? I hope you'll put some comment about this. Thanks... =)