abortion..................

"1. if you aborted, there are tendecy that you cannot bore a child in the future. D&C is a risky one, esp pregnant." Abortion is only risky when it's done by an untrained person in an unsterile environment. It may be illegal in your country, but it's not illegal here. Abortion is so dafe here, that you have a higher chance of becoming infertile from a natural pregancny than you do from getting an abortion. "2. A child is a blessing" Not everyone thinks that. Not everyone wants or likes kids. "3. If you're not ready to commit pregnancy, then be careful, try some methods that would eliminate pregnancy." Abortion does eliminate pregnancy. Contraceptives prevent pregnancy, but there is no such thing as a contracewptive that is 100% effective. They all have a failure rate and it can happen to anyone, no matter how careful you are. Even tubal ligations and vasectomies aren't failproof. "A relationship is a commitment not only to people but to a chils also." Are you saying that if you're in a relationship, then you're required to have children? I *greatly* disagree with that. Not everyone wants kids, and no one is required to have them. It's a choice.

"1. if you aborted, there are tendecy that you cannot bore a child in the future. D&C is a risky one, esp pregnant." That is not in any way true. A D&C is a very safe procedure. There is a tiny chance of infection or allergic reaction to pain meds used; that same tiny risk is present during any medical procedure. "2. A child is a blessing" Not to a woman who doesn't want to have children. Further, we are talking about pregnancies not children. "3. If you're not ready to commit pregnancy, then be careful, try some methods that would eliminate pregnancy. A relationship is a commitment not only to people but to a child also." Relationships are not contracts to have children. Many couples choose to be child-free, or child-free at this time, or feel that the children they have already are enough.