A challenge for you...can you enumerate 10 positive things about your partner?

@smin2x (46)
September 27, 2007 12:04am CST
They say, when you want to build up a relationship and wants it to last long then you must focus on the positive side of the person. That is precisely why they say love is blind...because they cannot or refuse to see the negative side of their lover. Can you enumerate ten positive things about your partner? Let's see if you are still lovestruck....difficult? maybe your focus has been altered and needs some adjustments. For me, here are the 10 things I like about my husband: - he is a good provider - he buys the groceries and goes to the market - he calls me everyday just to ask about my day - he gives me beautiful bouquet of flowers every valentines day - he see to it that he is around when I get sick or the children get sick - he tries to get along with my difficult mother - he wants me to have an easy life like insisting that I take a taxicab when i go out - He goes to church every Sunday - He takes confession at least once a year - He is generous to others specially to relatives Whew! that was quite tough .... a little! Try it!
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@sororravn (448)
• United States
27 Sep 07
Yes, here are 10 positive attributes about my fiance: 1) He loves me uncoditionally 2) He treats me and our children well 3) He is currently studying to better himself 4) He remembers my birthday 5) He is very sexy 6) He tells me how sexy he finds me constantly 7) He encourages me to do my best 8) He supports me in moving up the chain of command at work 9) He is a wonderful person to know and love 10) He is smart, funny, and knows how to cheer me up :) Thanks for this discussion! It helped me to remember why I am still with him after almost nine years!
• United States
27 Sep 07
This is a great discussion! 1. He makes me laugh - and after almost 16 years that's pretty good. 2. He still surprises me. 3. He can solve almost any problem. 4. He loves animals and they love him. 5. He whistles at birds and they whistle back at him. 6. He believes in my business ideas and kicks me in the butt to get my stuff done. 7. He does what he says he's going to do. 8. He's my uber-geek and makes everything work for me so I can run so many businesses from my home computer - I couldn't do any of that without him. 9. He watches cartoons and somehow that's sexy. 10. He calls me "bunny" and I think that's sort of sexy too lol.
@smin2x (46)
27 Sep 07
You know, I wrote these list on the birthday card for my husband and he gave me a genuine smile! I just wonder if he can also give 10 positive things about me.
@lgwlong (199)
• China
28 Sep 07
- she is beautiful - she follow up fashion - she buy me many gifts - she cook good food - she care about me - she love her family - she don't ask for too much ..... oh , i cannot finish ,my god
@rosie_123 (6113)
27 Sep 07
Actually, even after 20 years together - I found this surprisingly easy, - so I guess I must be lucky:-)) So here are mine:- 1) He is very witty with a great sense of humour, and always makes me laugh! 2) He is kind, caring and considerate - to me and to others. 3) He adores all animals and is kind to them, and adores our 6 cats as much as I do:-)) 4) He is a great listener. 5) He is a great, caring, passionate and considerate lover - and always makes me feel good in that way. 6) He treats me as an equal, and respects my views and opinions, and the fact that I have a great need for independance and freedom sometimes. 7) He works hard and earns a good salary. 8) He often buys me flowers and presents for no reason! 9) He tells me he loves me every day:-)) 10) He is very generous with money and would never begrudge anybody anthing!
• United States
27 Sep 07
Here are mine: 1. He's a good cook 2. He helps me out around the house. 3. He's a good lover 4. has a good sense of humor 5. he likes to work and make money 6. he spoils me 7. he's fun to be around 8. he'll do anything for me. 9. he shares my passion for music 10. he's attentive.
@devilsangel (1817)
• United States
27 Sep 07
- He's loving - He's kind - He makes me laugh - He's a great provider - He's sexy - He loves me even when I forget to love myself - He values our family - He's a great friend - He protects me and our family - He's a great lover
@eftychiap (349)
• Cyprus
27 Sep 07
I could list a million positive things about my partner! Of course there are bad things as well but here's my list: 1) He helps me clean up the house 2)He takes out the garbage 3) He loves my family 4) He is very sexy and handsome 5) He is a good listener 6) He likes shopping with me 7) He has good friends 8) He is a great lover 9) He buys me gifts every now and then 10) He is a very smart guy 11) He likes travelling (like me) 12) He is open-minded 13) He loves kids 14) He knows what to say exactly the right moment 15) He is a gentle and kind person 16) He is very tidy 17) He never drinks 18) He enjoys my company - We are friends as well 19) He does all the favors I asked him to do 20) He is very patient and many many more! I thing having such a great husband is the best thing that ever happened to me! I hope all the singles here have the best of luck and find something similar! Cheers to everybody :)
@zabawaus (1730)
• United States
27 Sep 07
ok lets thing about it for a while. - He loves me soooo much - He made a huge tattoo to his arm which is my name - We are not seeing each other and he is waiting for me - He is the one who wanted to marry which means he wants a family life - He loves kids and animals. - He is so much respectful to me - He is so much respectful to my family - He stops arguing if i am mad about something - He is not a temperer person. - He looks at my face so peaceful - He has a golden heart - He has a great sense of humor - We have our own language which only we can understand :) - He likes to listen - He is a very easy going person. Opppps you said 10 ok I am sorry this list goes forever.
@claire03 (1443)
• United States
27 Sep 07
there's a lot of positive things that i like about my husband; it's not just ten but 20 things. 1. he's a religious man, he goes to church every sunday and go to confession at least once a month and we always pray together. 2. he's a good provider. 3. he's a responsible and mature person. 4. he's sweet and caring. 5. he's fun and exciting and full of adventure. 6. he engages to sports. 7. he's not picky with food, so i can cook anything i want. 8. he's entertaining because he has a sense of humor. 9. he never forget special occassions like birthdays and anniversaries. 10. he always say "i love you". not a day he didn't say that magic word to me. (like i'm in a spell, i would always respond, i love you more or i love you too.) hehehe 11. he brings me flowers even without occassion cause he's romantic and sweet. 12. he always find time for me and our cute puppy jackie. 13. he always want to look good for me. 14. he compliments me and supports me. 15. he cooks dinner for me when he's not tired from work. 16. he gives me a back rub or massage when i'm not feeling good. 17. he showers me with kisses and he loves to hug me. 18. we always kiss and say i love you before going to sleep. 19. He buys me whatever food i want. 20. He fixes the house and we always do house improvements every year. He always plan for our family. there might be a lot more that i forget to include but i just want to make it until 20. I am really proud and lucky to have found him. i thank God for all the blessings in life. :)
@ailema4ever (2668)
• Finland
27 Sep 07
OK, here's my list about my hubby: 1. He's a WONDERFUL listener. 2. He's my best friend. 3. He always supports my dreams. 4. He never makes me feel stupid EVEN though I just did some stupid/silly mistakes. 5. He is so patient and gentle. 6. He cares about my family and my well-being. 7. He never raises his voice. 8. He leaves me a love note almost every day. 9. He never gives me unsolicited advice or forces me to do something. 10. He is understanding and sweet.
@vashenca (16)
27 Sep 07
1) he is clever 2) he is makes me laugh 3) he is kind and considerate 4) he lends me his car when mine is broke 5) he is good looking 6) he is interesting 7) he is loyal 8) he is fun to be around 9) he is really sweet 10) he makes me feel good 11) all my friends like him 12) i smile every time i think about him 13) he is great in bed 14) he is as scatty as me i could go on and on......:)