I lost my mother, its tear me

hi, hello! We are on the same plane. Me too lost my mother last 2005 and really the pain we felt is undescribable! What I did to pacify my pain was, my mother is alive because she is now a spirit...I only lost her physical presence and I believe she is still with me. How? I carried her maiden name, my body bears genes from her, some of my behavior, attitude is more or less copied from her. This realization pacified a bit of my longing of her. Whenever am faced with problems or difficulties, i talked to her in my lonely hours. Releasing the contents of my heart to her lightened my heart. Have you experienced doing that?

Hi, yes, i can relate very well to you, as i also lost my mother a few years back, due to cancer and saw her suffer right in front of my eyes, and am glad that the suffering was not as much as the normal cancer patients under go. She had cancer of the lungs and we all were rather shocked as shes never smoked nor anything of the kind, and the doctors wondered as well as to what could have happened to her, how she got it. And i have yet to see such a brave and positive lady as she was the one who used to give all of us courage instead, and used to tell us always to remain positive all the time too. She underwent chemotherapy and did not ever whine at anything nor any pain that she had, would ever come to be even known to us, its amazing how she managed that. As am sure that they all under go pain, but few are able to bear it up. Her end was smooth as she passed away after suffering from cardiac arrest and it was the tail end of her cancer life too , as after that she would have started the real suffering due to which the patients deterioate too. But some how for me, she never left me, and till date i feel her beside me, as my guiding light, as shes beside me in my ups and downs and i can sense and feel her with me always. Yes, physically shes not there, and i miss her talks and everything a lot but when i close my eyes and rethink of her, i find her with me, and i would suggest maybe you also try that, as those who are close to us, never leave our side . So, what you are undergoing too is not abnormal or something thats out of place as maybe you are or werevery close to your mother too, and those whom we are close to, become our guardian angels and stay with us forever, guiding us all through our lives, and we are lucky to have them beside us always too.

sorry for that friend..i know how do you feel the pain..our mother is our best friend..it's painful to us if they will go away..but i think she's happy where she's now and i hope that you already moved on..just pray for her because i know she's always there to comfort you and to watch you always..God Bless

It's really very hard to lose a mother. I lost my mother too last 2005. It's never been the same without her. Unitl now I still miss her and thinks that she is just around the house doing her chores. Ever since she passed away, I've been very sickly and easily stressed out. I think it will take me a long time before I could really accept that she is gone.

It is very difficult to lose someone so close to you. I am very sorry for your loss. I know it must be hard to want to tell your mother of your good news and bad news and then realize she is no longer with you physically. She will always be in your heart and memories, so cherish those and let them keep you happy and not sad. She is in a better place I am sure! Take care!

Mothers never leave us they remain in our hearts. I am sure your Mom would not want you to suffer over her loss. There is no reason you can not talk to her, wherever she is she will hear you. Keep her memory in your heart. I thought of this poem I heard once. If you will remember me, remember me with love. If you remember me with tears, do not remember me at all!

tahat is soo sad to hear about your views i em soo sorry please i konw how important is mother to her children

hello, mizanbdit. I am so sorry that you lost your mother. There is no love can compare with mother's love. 'Mother' is such a holy word for everyone, mother is home, mother is lamp, mother is lough... Do not be so sorry. Your mother must not hope so. Go on your life as you can and your mother will bless you. Mother's love will not disappear even though she passes out.

hi,my friend ,don't sad that's life