Should I Give up?
By psyche2007
@psyche2007 (97)
China
September 27, 2007 10:41am CST
My last boyfriend is tall and thin,is humor,able,fational,is active among his friends.He also shew his love to me,and took good care of me.He could feel my feeling,sad or glad with me.He also tsught me a lot of experience about life.In a words,I felt happy because of him.However,my parents didn't agreed with us.They didn't like him,because he was in love with other girls in his yunger age,too early they said.And his parents departed when he was 16,also too early they said,it may bring bad efforts on him.Besides,he is only a junior college student,while I am a undergraduate one.I felt pain for about half an year and was hesitated.Should I give up?And we have little relates now.
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2 responses
@secretbear (19448)
• Philippines
2 Oct 07
if you both love each other then love will find a way. you'll both find a way. i think you're already old enough to decide what's good for you and what's not. your parents wont be the ones that will have a relationship with the guy but you so you're the one to decide if you'll keep him or break up with him.
but one advice, before you fight for your love, make sure that he really loves you, that he truly loves you and he's more than willing to fight with you for the sake of your relationship. because it wouldnt be any good if you fight for your love but the guy loves another girl. your effort will be a waste.
@psyche2007 (97)
• China
2 Oct 07
I see.Thank u for your words.And your advice is highly worth considering.Is he brave enough to fight to make us be together?He ever said that what he most concerned was my love,and he would never give up until obtain my parents' agreement.And if this effort failed,he would rather bring me away in a place far away from my parents to marry me.But when I ever said goodbye to him,he thought over and let me go.Was he afaid?Did he ever really want to cause what he said to become the reality ?I don't have the encourage to know it.
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@secretbear (19448)
• Philippines
4 Oct 07
i guess he let you go because you said goodbye. i think he's the type of guy who wouldnt force himself on someone so when you said its over, he thought you dont want him anymore and respected your decision. i think he thinks that there is no point of fighting for your relationship if you are not willing to fight with him. no one wants a relationship to be one-sided. ^__^
@bluebell19861022 (12)
• China
27 Sep 07
I think the love is your own thimg. you can choses the way you like .And you said it is happy to stay with him,you should grap your feel.I am a undergraduate one too ,so I can understand the pure love in our age.
However,if you want to marry with him.you should take canside of your parent's suggestion,for they have more experiance then you.
my advice for you is you could give more time to yourself and you bf,not only you could kown him more ,but also could change your parent views.give my best wishes to you!
@psyche2007 (97)
• China
30 Sep 07
Sorry to answer you late. I went back home to see my parents these days.And they thought of this thing at lunch,I told them that I had got no relate with my boyfriend now. They said yes to me.I don't compain for them,and after they said no to us,it let me feel hesitated that should I give up.Their suggestion is worth considering.Maybe you are right we got less awknowlege with eavh other,and I don't very be after our love much.He sent me message recently. It needs time for me maybe.Thank you for your best wishes.
