This one's for SINGLE LADIES...
@dreamleaper17 (702)
Philippines
September 27, 2007 2:55pm CST
The scenario: two men are in love with you. One's the athletic type, handsome, charming, witty but isn't really affectionate. He has a 'certain' way of showing you and letting you know he loves you.
The other one's the geek type who's really romantic and very affectionate. He's a good listener and has a 'somewhat' endearing quality to him that you just can't get enough of.
Who would you choose and why.
8 responses
@bizmom (515)
• United States
27 Sep 07
I know im not single
but i use to be! lol
i say the *geeky* one
the other one WILL get colder as time goes by! ( personal exper.)
BUT i have to ask is the geeky one OVERLY affectionate!??
IF so then ask him to tone it down nicely of course - that u like him but please dont try SO HARD :) ur there not going anywhere that u know of now ( u cant predict everything) lol
(personal exper. as well )
AND to remind u that they arent the ONLY two *fish* in the sea!!!
GOOD LUCK :) XX
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@dreamleaper17 (702)
• Philippines
3 Oct 07
thank you, bizmom, for sharing your wisdom! you're right, there aren't ONLY two 'fish' in the sea! haha. now i wonder where the others went? happy posting! :)
@anuj_3103 (32)
• India
29 Sep 07
Well,I will consider the second one who is loving,caring cauz to maintain a strong relationship one must understand the feelings of the other & should always respect U and accept u as u r.So,I think the second one has got all these qualities.
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@dreamleaper17 (702)
• Philippines
3 Oct 07
your response gave me the impression that you are so sure of who or what you want in a guy. that's a very admirable trait, phayeth! thanks so much for your response. :)
@carol_m (709)
• Philippines
28 Sep 07
I would go for the athletic type; guess what you had described is partly what I would like my bf to be =)
Your statement of 'certain' way of showing his love is what catches my attention. I like guys who are not so predictable and not so affectionate, and a little naughty. I find affectionate and romantic guys boring hahaha. Wit is also important as I love to converse.
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@dreamleaper17 (702)
• Philippines
3 Oct 07
cool... looks like we've got the same preferences, carol_m. but i like romantic guys, too, because that's my love language. i know it's kinda coreny but i really like being pampered with those flowers-and-chocolates kind of thing. You mentioned wit... it's a definite plus for me, too! :)
@thefortunes (2367)
• Netherlands
28 Sep 07
LOL Dreamleaper, let me start by saying - difficult to answer such a question, as I will be replying it while using my brain. Suppose this was happening in real life there would have been feelings involved too, and I would have replied only in such a case, after having expirienced the feelings any one of the two made me feel :)
TheFortunes
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@dreamleaper17 (702)
• Philippines
3 Oct 07
hmm... that's quite a thought. just like saying 'i'll have to cross the bridge when i get there,' right? see you around, thefortunes! :)
@gradyslady (4054)
• United States
28 Sep 07
Can't I just combine the two? See I would pick the first guy because it's those little personal certain things that they do that are the sweetest, and if you're way over romantic and then get married and don't do it anymore the woman gets upset and wonders what happened. I'd pick the other guy, because most of my ex's are all geeks, and because a woman wants to know that her man is romantic and that he listens.
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@dreamleaper17 (702)
• Philippines
3 Oct 07
I actually also want a combination of the two. Listening is a very important trait to look for in a partner. Thanks for posting your respose, gradyslady! Send my warmest regards to grady! lol! happy mylotting! :)
@dreamleaper17 (702)
• Philippines
3 Oct 07
Why are geeks always better? Are you saying that based on personal experience? :)
@blog8withJ (136)
• United States
27 Sep 07
Did you mean me? LOL...anyway, It's hard to choose between the two. I think I'll keep them both.
lol...if I can.
@dreamleaper17 (702)
• Philippines
3 Oct 07
yeah, i meant you, blog8withJ and all the other ladies who'd want to give it a thought and make a choice. hehehe. too bad you can't keep them both. you have to leave one for me. lol! happy posting! :)
