Women How suck the life out of good dads!!!

I could ramble on for hours on this but instead I'll just post the links to a couple of my other discussions. http://www.mylot.com/w/discussions/1317295.aspx http://www.mylot.com/w/discussions/1020189.aspx The whole situation is absolutely stupid...

At least he is paying it and not like most who doesnt. she should be happy with what she does get and not keep trying to get all she can from him. That to me is wrong. ya'll have to have enough to support yourselfs as well she should be considerant and the judges should too , its wrong to put yall in a bind just b/c she is money hungry .. does she work or exspect to support there kids and herself of the child support

Some are money hungry pathetic people. Both of my brothers have been divorced with children involved, and both are remarried. They have always paid child support and are great dad's, but the ex's are horrible. You would think they are sister's because they are constantly trying to think of ways to get more money. Not only are they money hungry, but they are also jealous. Is your husband's ex remarried? If she is not that is probably where the jealousy is from. Good luck, the usually never give up.

You know what they say, money can't buy you love. So, I'm sure that this woman is depressed that her ex and her aren't in love any more and so she's going for the next best thing ... his money. If you're concerned about money is there any way that you could get a job to help out?

i know that i may get yelled at but i am going to go ahead and speak my mind like i always do. when you go for child support you can only get what you are intitled to. if she is intitled to more money, then he has to give up more money. what you need to do is go after the father of your children and get yours too. she is doing what is right and lawful.

I have been in my step daughters life for three years and she is 6 now. i also have a 4 year old son who is not my husbands (I had him before we met) and I don't get support for him. The last time my husband's ex (who he was never married to) took him to court when she was still a single mom with another kid, but forgot to mention the other kids dad lived with her! My husband had to pay more since she had another kid, but we werent' married yet so he couldn't claim my son (but you can't even if you are married which is crap because i don't work and we haven't had spare money for my husband to adopt him quite yet.) I get so mad because all they take is how much the dad makes and doesn't even consider the house payment, car, or anything. Just because you have more money doesn't mean you're spending it on your kids! My step daughters mom buys my step daughter junk. She has so many clothes and more shoes than I have. She just now started packing her clothes when she came to stay because she lets my step daughter eat whatever she wants and she grows 2 sizes a year. I was buying her more than my own son! I still dont' have much money for my son. Her mom is a poor me, but excuse me, you have two men supporting you and the one supporting me is supporting you! I get tired of going over the same rules every week and when I teach my step daughter something she should have known a long time ago, she never works on it at home because she knows she doens't have to and it's back to square one when she comes back. She can't even skip or jump rope! I get so mad that her mom gets $480 a month just for one kid and complains "poor me, I have no money." She has an attitude towards me when I pick my step daughter up like I'm coming at an inconvenient time and she's not ready yet. I get her a 3 in the afternoon and she should be lucky someone picks her up so she doesn't have to drive. No one in my family has step kids and they treat my step daughter like someone special and I know its' going to go to her head one day and upset my son. You can't treat them different when you have another one at home. It causes jealousy between kids and i would rather go through the drama than them. I feel so out of control in me and my husband getting a say in how my step daughter is raised because her mom has her more and has my step daughter freakin' wrapped around her finger. I'm tired of hearing all about mommy when she is over and tired of acting fake saying "yeah that must have been fun". Anyway I need someone to vent to and you are in a similar situation.

Have you contacted Fathers for Equal Rights to get some free guidance? Is there one near you? Check it out please! He's getting jacked up every which way from Sunday. Fight her, is there legal aid where you are, there's no shame in getting help with this crap. I agree there are women out there that give good men hell for the rest of their lives, but there is a way to fight it. Document everything that happens because I bet she's really hateful too, so write down every conversation, build a file and take it to court, that's almost extortion, you're only supposed to be able to take someone back to court for more if the situation with the child changes or there's proof that the father is earning more money. Bless you and good luck to you!

i hate that type of women..

190 a week? Thats rediculous! I dont know much about child support, but I am 17 and I never cost my parents no where near that much money. We spend way less than that on grocerys a week for the 3 of us. What does his ex spend all that money on!