It won't do you NO harm

@meekoh (28)
Philippines
September 27, 2007 7:21pm CST
I have been through a lot of frustrations in life. It has been worthwhile for it opened my eyes to the reality that exists around me. Sometimes, I fail to see that there are a lot of things I should be grateful for. It's just that that I too fail to acknowledge its presence. We are blinded by what we wanted to see and hear. Then and there, our frustrations, in a snail's pace, creeps into our veins slowly poisoning our minds. You may disagree with what I have written but let me tell you this, sometimes, men refuse to hear and listen. Because of that, an argument arises and we end up not only frustrated but certainly miserable. My mom used to tell me that if a man lives a miserable life it is for a fact that he chose to. Trudgingon that path results to a man's stubborness. Men begin to hide and prefer the things that are wrong. It came into my realization that I too am a very miserbale and frustrated person - because I chose to be one. Every man has his own free will you see. With whatever decision you make, you are making, and you are to make, listen not only within but too to the people around you. It won't do you no harm if you just let your heart and mind open to all the changes life and fate will be offering.
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@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
29 Sep 07
I agree with everything you have written to a point, a person can make their choices in life but a person has no control over their feelings, you can say I won't feel like that any more but you do because feelings have a mind of their own and can not be turned off like a tap, you may say it is not in my best interest to love a person, but you will still have that feeling, you may even move away but the feelings will still be there, and this will continue until your feelings decide to go into another direction, it can't be manipulated...But one can only try.
@meekoh (28)
• Philippines
29 Sep 07
I believe that the mind was placed above the head so that we would know how to deal with our emotions - above anything else. I think it is all up to one's self how to deal with it. People need people too. Yes, we can only try. I always do. Thanks to you! :)
@svelte (132)
• Philippines
5 Oct 07
take one step back from where you are right now, maybe you'll realize that there are other things way too important than feeling miserable and frustrated.