Will you stay with your husband's parent after you both have get marry??

This would vary from person to person, their different kinds of natures and prefernces. For me, though my inlaws are in the same place as we are, but we do have our seperate houeses and i prefer it this ways. Reason being that each person likes their own privacy and have a home of their own, no one would like to be told things or like to share their privacy and when we have to stay in such kind of joint families, there is bound to be some sort of friction, though of course, exceptions are always there, and i also know of people and inlaws who live very well together, but that is not the case always too. I feel that when there is full acceptance from both sides, that is when the inlaws accept the girl or boy as their own son or daughter, and vice versa, from the heart within, maybe that time things change and the girl or boy get this good feeling from within too, then maybe they can move in or stay together, though for me that would be a last preference too. Also distance makes the hearts grow fonder as its said, so its always better that each person has their own oplace, and they visit each other, spend some good moments with each other, but return to your own place there after, its alwasy better, so that each family has their own space as well. And in time of crisis or problems, joys or sorrows, you are always together.

It would be fine with me if we have to live in my husband's parents' house provided we have to move to our own house after some time. Im very much particular with privacy and I think we have less privacy if we continue living with the in-laws. Another thing, it is better to have our own house for us to learn what's independent living really is.

i grown up with an culture of that has close family ties but when you say after get marry of course i would like to have my own house. I've always wanted to have my own house and i think in making a family that i think should be the right thing to do. Start on your own, have your own house and make your own family. The parents are just there to guide so they will support or respect decision. how will we learn if we stay with the guys parents, we might just be depending or perhaps hold our lives like we dont have our own. So i really prefer to have my own house with my own family.

i shouldn't be like that co'z we should have our own house, even if his parents are nice.. co'z we need also our privacy... also i don't want to have a misunderstanding with his family.

I would never ever move in with my boyfriend's parents - though they are very nice and all. But I need my independence. I have moved out of my parents' house when I was 19, first lived alone and then moved in with my boyfriend. We are living together since nearly three years now. I hope we are going to be married in about a year or two.

I will buy my own house with my husband because it is easy to make something and decisions without discuss my parents in law.Its difficult to disscus with other people.

I do not think it has to be in that order. Me and my guy are living together for several years in our OWN house. We rented the house a couple of years ago, we also have children together, and are still not married. We have a registered partnership which is similar to marriage