A broken heart

@kwenge (2487)
Kenya
September 28, 2007 8:08am CST
It happens almost daily to different people. Have you ever been heartbroken by someone you truly loved and trusted? Or have you ever broken someone's heart sooo bad that it even heart you? How did you feel in either way? did something stick in your throat that you could not even swalow your own saliva? Please give your experiences. How did you deal with the heartache?
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@MarieJ23 (1040)
• United States
28 Sep 07
I guess almost all people are brokenhearted in any way and I am not an exclusion to that.*smile* I only had one ex-boyfriend prior to my marriage and I was really truly devastated with our break-up. It was so painful because there was a 3rd party involve (with him) and I just can't accept it. But right after I am done mourning for the lost love, I come to realize that God is really good because he gave me a more better man, that's my husband now. I just could not ask for more. He cared and pampered me the way I always dreamed off. I truly love my hubby and he does to.
@kwenge (2487)
• Kenya
29 Sep 07
Marie, the bible says that everything happens for good for those who love the Lord. That verse justifys your situation. Now you are the happiest gal on earth because of what happened with your ex. Congratulations gal.
@MarieJ23 (1040)
• United States
29 Sep 07
Thank you friend! You're indeed right!
• Philippines
28 Sep 07
yes, and i feel like im dying inside, but the only thing i ask to and fray to lessen the pain,and i took me sometimes.but i have to face the reality its sometimes things happened for a reson, and we learn from it. it make me stronger and wiser.. i took a vacation alone and think a lot of things and life and my self. and read some books, its a mixture of anger and lonelyness, but i learn to accept thing as it is. and try give my understanding.and forgiveness. now i feel much better. memory is atill there but its not as painful as before. the best way is acceptance. accept things the way it is.
@kwenge (2487)
• Kenya
29 Sep 07
I wish you luck first. Thanks for your views on this. Am glad you have healed now, you fell down but you stood up and dusted yourself and now you have moved on. Life has got so many challenges and we have to accept that change is the only constant force in nature. I wish you happiness.
@vidyasma (91)
• India
28 Sep 07
iam 32 years old and iam married. yes iam heart broken becasue neither my kids love me a lot nor my in-laws. they keep expecting from me but iam not suppose to expect anything from them no one asks for my opinions areadvices when they are suppose to ask for and no one cares much to gift me or show affection to me when needed. all i have got is just scoldings from my family always.
@kwenge (2487)
• Kenya
29 Sep 07
Gosh! Am really sorry for you. I know how it feels when the people that are supposed to love you hurt you instead. But you know what? Atleast you love yourself and be proud of yourself. Dont expect anything from them. Console yourself with the fact that atleast they expect something from you. You are too young to get worried over some things. Take a vacation alone and go somewhere far and I bet when you come back they will be missing you. I wish you well.