My best friend,she nearly forget me!

@cici6880 (656)
China
September 28, 2007 9:47am CST
Today I cried for several hours because my best friend's illness.The man she loved passed away a few weeks ago and she attend to his exequies.After that day she got hyperpyrexia and today when I send a message to her she told me she had forgetten something.Her mother told me when she came to herself she even dont know who she was!Thanks godness!She remembers her relatives and friends but she cant remember the man she loved.Now we dont know whether we should tell her the turth.The doctor said there is a risk to recall her memory.We just want her to be safe and happy but we are upset and dont know how to make a wise decision.
3 responses
braveheart07
@braveheart07 (2601)
• Philippines
30 Sep 07
Hi, I am so sad of what had happened. I am just hoping the best for your friend. It is very nice that she still remembered her relatives and friends and that is the good thing there. Since the doctor had told that there is a risk to recall her memory, it is better that you have to wait for the right time to say the version of the story. Just stay happy and make her happy too. Do not let her show that you feel upset because this will only bother her and feel guilt to herself because of what had happened. Have a nice day and God speed!
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cici6880
@cici6880 (656)
• China
30 Sep 07
Thank you for your care.My friend decides to forget all the sad things because she want to start a new life and she said it's fortunate to forget something heartbroken and be happy from now on.
kitty1234
@kitty1234 (1476)
• United States
28 Sep 07
Maybe it is better not to tell her yet. Her memory f him may come back on its own someday! Why make her relive the past and break her heart again. Maybe her mind is protecting her from the pain.
swetha2rani
@swetha2rani (341)
• India
28 Sep 07
I agree with yours, let her live a new life rather than repenting on her past and getting her depressed.
cici6880
@cici6880 (656)
• China
28 Sep 07
Yes,we think it's will be a better choice for her.The doctor said only hypnogenesis can help her to remember the things she had forgetten. but if she cant wake up during the hypnogenesis she probably will be in the vegetated state.
xuejie
@xuejie (112)
• China
30 Sep 07
I just want to say she is already very luck! My anut was serious illed and still stuporous, all of may family member was sad. And my mother eat nothing. It was almost 2 months after that. If she can open her eyes, we will do all the things we can do. I prefer she will be OK than remeber me.