How do you relate with your In-laws

I do not like my in-laws much. My husband is an only child and his mom has never liked anyone he has dated seriously. After they broke up she then became great friends with many of the girls. So, she had a negative opinion of me before we even met. Having said that, she tried to fake it a little bit but at our rehearsal dinner, she threw a big fit, told my mom off for no reason, and threatened to miss the wedding. My husband told her she didn't have to come but that it would still go on regardless. She spent the next 3 weeks sending my husband nasty emails about me and my family. He finally had to tell her off for it and now she acts nice but very fake to me. We also now have a daughter and I know she's nice so that she can see her. I never talk with her on the phone and rarely communicate through email. They live in Florida and we live in Missouri, so we don't see them much. We probably see them once or twice a year and it's very stressful for me. My father-in-law is alright but he doesn't talk much and makes me a little uncomfortable but he's pleasant. Every other guy I'd ever dated seriously had parents who loved me but I had to marry the one whose parents don't like me much. Go figure.

Hi kwenge, I'm blessed to have a good in-laws. They were very supportive with us and is always ready to back us up during our hard times. I'm glad I've never experienced that they treat me like an intruder to their family (it will be very frustrating and sad) in fact they were very good to me. They treat me as their daughter too. Don't worry kwenge in time you will got married. I wished you to have good relationship with your in-laws. Good Luck girl and God Bless! :)