how to pursue a girl?
By fyws1978
@fyws1978 (18)
China
September 29, 2007 7:03am CST
I knew a girl before soon.We just knew name and telephone number each other. I want to continue to associate with her, How should I do? Should I invite her to go out first?
3 responses
@KH0389 (56)
• United States
29 Sep 07
Take it from a girl. Be nice and calm. Don't pressure her to do or go anywhere/anything. Give her a call and tell her you just want to chat. If she agrees, at least you know she likes you. Talk for a while, then at the end, if the conversation goes right (after you get more information about eachother, and get to know one another) ask her if she has plans for (whenever you're available). If she says no, don't take it hard. Some girls like it when you constantly call and ask them out, and others will get annoyed and change their phone number. Don't annoy her.
When you go out with her, take her somewhere nice (maybe a movie, dinner, etc)...My husband first asked me to go to a movie with him, he said that it was for my birthday and not a date. It ended with a hug and kiss. Think of an upcoming special occasion and ask her to join you in the celebration.
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@braveheart07 (2601)
• Philippines
1 Oct 07
Hello fyws.. Welcome to mylot. Well, you should not be in a hurry. As long as you have this communication, everything will be alright. Just go on and make her feel that you are concerned to her. Be gentleman always and tell her the truth about what you feel to her. Yes, you may invite her to go out or have some dinner with you. Actually, that may sounds good to her and this will develop your relationship with her.
Have a nice day and God speed!
@nickventere (1420)
• Zambia
29 Sep 07
Well, just call her once in a while first, to say hi. Do it on a regular basis for about 3 weeks. Call her to say good morning, and then in the afternoon. If she is free, you should also call her in the evening, talk a little and then wish her a good night.
Later you can tell by her reaction. If she sounds likeable, then ask her out. The rest you can put in.
Good luck!