What Do You Think of This Situation?

Hello ailema4ever.. I think that would be okay for me. There is no discrimination when we talk about marriage. As long as they love each other and they deserve to get married, then it would be okay for me. Actually, their relationship is healthy because they start from being best friends. In terms of having a successful marriage in this kind of relationship, I think it is possible. Have a nice day and God bless!

I think its unfair for this girl.I dont know how good their relationship is,but lets suppose if the girl fell in love with this guy one day,how painful she would be.On the other hand,if the girl found her beloved one at last,would that guy understand and accept her finally?Anyway,I dont think such a marriage would be successful.Personally,I thought the gay guy is a little bit selfish.

I had a gay male friend who married a lesbian because they both turned forty and had no one to spend their lives with. 2 years later my friend met a man and fell in love and the two had to divorce and the lesbian is still alone. But they are still best friends. Now, if the girl really wants to be married to a man who doesn't desire her physically and if she thinks she can handle it, great. If one day, things loosen up as far as sexuality is concerned and the guy falls in love with another guy, would the girl be shattered? Would the friendship suffer? Just a few things to think about.

Yes, I have heard of this. Successful? No. A friend of mine is in a situation that a requiers heterosexual lifestyle ONLY. She is a lesbian and she felt that "coming out" in a heterosexual atmosphere would ruin her career. She married a friend of mine who is in the SAME situation and understand her options. They agreed to be married only for 2 years and aftre that get a divorce and so on. Just until they can BOTH manage their lifestyle without question from anyone. I know amny peopel that marry this way for family, careers, enviroment and situation. it happens. What THEY make of it is on them. But we are NO ONE to judge them by the choices they choose to make.

I don't think that's any better or any worse of a reason to marry than any other. At least they're being honest with each other about what they want & need from the relationship. In a perfect world there wouldn't be any need for hiding your true self from the world, but this isn't a perfect world & if this man doesn't feel like changing society all by himself that's his right. I have a very good friend who identifies herself as a lesbian who happened to fall in love with a man. They have a great relationship, even though it's not exactly traditional.

since i am a christiant, i'm 100% refusing a-gay-marriage in this world. so i highly appreciate to the female in your story for her sacrifaction. and if two of them were loyal, they probably would finally love each other. what a wonderful life!!!!!!!!!

hmmmm.I am sure they wil never b happy.bcoz right now due to emotional feelings she is willing to marry him but afterwards she will face alot of problems.so you should not support her.but may i tell you if you oppose her she will think you are jealous of her.and she will not accept your suggestion.