Mother's Knows Best - What can you say about this quote?

@emetha (69)
Philippines
September 30, 2007 10:08am CST
For me I know that my mom knows what's right for me. My mother gives her opinion when I'm making hard decisions in life. She is my friend and the one that I can lean upon. But someimes I think, Is she right all the time?? If I won't obey her..or follow her instructions or take her advice..does it make me a rebellious child??
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12 responses
• Philippines
1 Oct 07
Hello emetha.. First of all, welcome to mylot. Yes! I agree on that quote. Mother really knows best for us. Whatever problems we might encounter, she would really make the right decisions for us. At some point, sometimes we tend to realize that her decision is wrong, but the truth is, she really loves you and she cares a lot for you. If you think that you are more correct than her decision or advice, try to think twice or even thrice, and weigh if what really is the correct decision without the feeling of guilt to yourself. Have a nice day and God speed!
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@emetha (69)
• Philippines
1 Oct 07
Thanks! :) It is so nice to think that we have loving and understanding mothers. If we are wrong they will never let us down. When we move to the wrong track she is always there for us. I think if we make decisions that we are not sure of, we must consult our mothers. Have a heart-to-heart talk with her. No matter what the decision will be, she will understand. :)
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@coolmailraj (2460)
• India
1 Oct 07
Hi. I most of time follow my mother and try to seek some help from her in what ever matter it is possible to do so but many a ties we differ in our opinion and I don't think that when I follow my heart or my thought in those cases, she feels that I am rebelling. It does happen some times that things don't workout as I plan but still she helps me in finding a way out.
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@emetha (69)
• Philippines
1 Oct 07
Yes, sometimes we have diferrent opinions from our mothers and even different taste. But we also have to respect our mothers. When it comes to love life..it is you who can make your own decision, i believe that mothers can never find the right person for thier children. I think you are not rebellious, you are just fighting for love. Anyways you are the one who will be marrying that person, not your mother. Everything will change if she found out that she will be a grandmother. hehe.. :)
@nyumix (1658)
• Belgium
1 Oct 07
I think I agree with you. I always said to my husband if we have different opinion about the kids, that I know them better than him, since I'm he one who spend most of the time with my children. And I think he also agree with me when it turn to that issues.
@emetha (69)
• Philippines
2 Oct 07
Yes, every parent have different opinion for their children. For me, mothers are more sensitive than fathers. But when it comes to disciplining the children, both parents have their own obligation. In my experience, when it comes to problems, I always consult my mother. :)
• China
1 Oct 07
hey, i don't think you are following the idea which your mother have offered . when we ask others for advise there has been opinion in our minds .what we want to do is ensure it and find some agreement . we follow others only when they are is consistantly same with our idea . do you agree?
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@emetha (69)
• Philippines
1 Oct 07
yeah, we have different opinions. The best thing to do is to collect all the opinions even opinions from your friends. But we must not take for granted the opinions of our mothers or parents as well. Maybe we can make decisions when an opinion has more advantages than disadvantages. Thanks for the comment! :)
@moira725 (49)
• Philippines
30 Sep 07
5 of my 6 kids, and me - mommy with kids at vigan city
hi emetha!i think when we were children, mom really knew what was best for us, mainly because of our inexperience at that time. but as we grow older and experience life, we come to realize what is best for each one of us. however, i think even as adults, we also have to consult with our mom every now and then on certain issues. even if you may not agree with what she says, at least this act shows her that you respect her ideas and opinions. after all, we consult our peers on some decisions that we have to make. don't we? like any individual, moms are not perfect, but most moms do the best that they can to love and nurture their children.
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@emetha (69)
• Philippines
1 Oct 07
hello moira, wow you got 6 children. You are lucky God blessed you with these children. Like you Im also a mother and even though I have family I still consult my mother for some advice especially those hard decision making. I think we knew what's best for our children but it depends on them if they will take our advice or not, what matters most is the respect and love for our mothers. God bless you and your family. :)
• Philippines
1 Oct 07
God bless you and your family too!
• Australia
1 Oct 07
As a mother I can say that of course we know best! lol. Well, ok, we're not perfect & can sometimes be wrong, but generally we do know what is best, especially as we have been a child once too! I remember the things my mum would say & do. I remember her telling me that she knew best. Now that I'm grown & have kids of my own, I know she was right. Sadly I lost my mum to cancer when I was 21 (I'm now 39). I wish she was still around to offer advice. But I do use what I learnt from her with my kids, and I know that one day my kids will realise that I do know whats best.
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@emetha (69)
• Philippines
1 Oct 07
hi princesslee, I'm sorry for your loss. Yeah it makes us mothers happy to hear and know that we know whats best for our children. We can realize how much our mother means to us if she's gone. Yes, agree to what you've said that we will realize that our mothers are right when we ouselves become mothers. Thanks for commenting. :)
@wayz12 (2059)
• United States
30 Sep 07
No. Most parents love their children and have a fairly good grasp of what they think is best for them, but this does not make them perfect or infallible. They are there to guide you and help you make decisions in the best way they can, but in the final end, your life is yours to live. Deep in your heart you know what is best for you, and even if it is not, but if you want to, then it is your right to do so. Sometimes to grow and learn, we have to make our own mistakes, painful though they may be. Our parents will try to their best to shield you from such, but that is how growth and maturity occurs. So yes, your mother doesn't always know best, but i'm sure she is doing her best to raise you right. The choice of following her advice is still completely yours.
@mamasan34 (6518)
• United States
30 Sep 07
I can't say that mothers know best, we are all human and are entitled to make mistakes. What I can say about being a mother is we know better than that of our youthful counterparts. Our children tend to look up at us for answers, even as they become older, they may not ask for advice, but they certainly need it. I can't say I know everything, but I do know that we have better advice than most. My mother for example has never steered me wrong throughout my life, many times I have chosen not to listen and always the outcome has been as she described, so in my later years I have come to trust her advice and instruction.
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@emetha (69)
• Philippines
1 Oct 07
hello mamasan, you have that point, we are only human and we are not made to be perfect. But mothers are an advantage to a growing child or even an adult, yes they are important and not to be taken for granted..especially thier loving words of advice..its true..we must learn from our mistakes.. thanks ang happy mylotting. :)
@gesell03 (173)
• Philippines
1 Oct 07
i wish i could tell that my mother is also like that but she isnt, i still love her though.
@emetha (69)
• Philippines
1 Oct 07
hi gesell, I think if you can't tell your mom how you appreciate her or love her, just show it to her. Even in simple things or give her something she could appreciate, small little things that can make her smile or give joy to her...or just treat her out..because she worth it. Have a nice day! :)
@ssf12ster (488)
• India
1 Oct 07
nowadays yougsters always rebel aginst parents.it is for your own good that they tell u to behave.if u dont take her adivce then i think u r getiing outta control.u need to talk things and speak to each other regarding rebellious issues if any!
@emetha (69)
• Philippines
1 Oct 07
In small children its best to follow mothers instructions or else you'll get hurt. Those children who are not following are out of control. I think its better to discipline children while they are young. If you children are old enough to understand..let them have thier own decision, but of course share your own opinion as a mother. :)
@xiaoxu (31)
• China
1 Oct 07
my mother doesnot know what is best for me I think.she makes decisions according to her experence which may not fit me.if your mother is very smart,and you think what she says is helpful.Just follow her.but from my point of view,we should learn to make decision by ourselves.
@emetha (69)
• Philippines
2 Oct 07
We have to make decisions for ourselves if we are old enough and capable to do something. But if we are still young children we must not ignore our mother, even if she is not too smart, she is still our mother. :)
• United States
30 Sep 07
She knows best because of her life experience. So she tells us whats right and wrong and what we shouldn't do because she knows from her life experience.
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@emetha (69)
• Philippines
1 Oct 07
Mothers have experiened it also when they were children once. They have learned from thier mistakes and they have lots of knowledge in any particular experience. Thier advices and opinions cannot be taken for granted..just think about the advantages and disadvantges when making decisions. Thanks for the comment! :)