Are U fully accepted by UR INLAWS ???

I know I am fully accepted ny my in-laws. I am not too sure why there should be a wedge between you and your in-laws. Maybe it's what you do or how you carry yourself, or even your social manners. But I think there is a resolution to whatever drives a wedge between you and your in-laws. Try thinking about the cause for the enmity. That way, after relecting on it, you will be able to resolve the issue, and get on well with your in-laws. You both have to be sociable, and just be real!

I'm sorry to hear that. My in-laws have accepted me VERY VERY well since day one, even though we can't even communicate well 'coz they speak Finnish and they barely speak English and my Finnish is still not enough to communicate. Maybe you should try to talk to them or something? Find out what they like and then try to make them feel that you respect them and care about them.

I am very sorry to hear that.my inlaws loves me and very kind to me.since the 1st time i met them they already treated me well.maybe there's something about you that cant blend with them.i know many people are in the same situation as yours.i hope you'll manage

lol...NOT AT ALL! Considering that mine is an arranged marriage and my in-laws were the first people from my husband's family to meet me (even before I met my husband). Right now, they are not even talking to me and I have no idea why! When I ignore the cold attitude and try to talk to them at family gatherings, my mother-in-law gives curt answers and moves away and my father-in-law totally ignores me and walks by me! He hasn't even come to see my second child and then I took him to see his grandfather when he was 10 months old! I don't want to teach them a lesson. In my mind we still are family and I don't want my children to miss out on the love of their grandparents due to this attitude of theirs. I think open communication is important and they should be able to tell me if I am wrong so that I realize what I've done...apologize and move on!

I guess not. esp with my partner right now... I believe that his parents do not like me for their son. I guess with the parents most of the times, there is no one better for their son. If they could have Ms perfect, they would take it for their son...and sometimes feel that still not good enough for him.

Well i am lucky in that sense.I have been fully accepted by my in laws.They really treat me as there own family members.There is no problem in that senese for me.