Is It Difficult to Say "I Love You"

First let me congratulate you in this discovery. There is little else that is more important. Yes I have experienced this....most of my life. While I love deeply I have always found it hard to say I love you. What I tried to do to compensate for it was through my actions. I did my best to show her I loved her. But that is often not enough. As much as men love to hear this from their sweetheart, they like it even more. No matter what you do to show your love it matters little compared to the simple words..."I Love You".

I don't know.As to me,It will be too hard to say this to the one i love.So many times I lost the opportunity for living together with my lover.When it comes to say"I love you",I am too timidit to say it out for I have no courage to receive the negative answer.I am afraid to be rejected and I aways be defeated by myself.

actually to say "I love you" is not as easy as its seems.a person should really know their true feeling is it "love" or is it just "like".its also need a courage to say it because we didnt know what will be the respond.so we have to be ready for a bad respond also

Well, as we all know that it is very easy saying i love you. without feelings you could say it to anyone if you really just want to. But there are times, when you want to say it with full emotion, that is really hard...esp if he/she does not know that you love him/her. I believe there would come a time that saying it would be the most difficult thing to do.

Sometimes, if you are angry or hurt. But time heals all wounds. Once, you get over or overcomes the feelings already, and the love is still there, then you will be able to utter I love you again.

I think if you really love your partner,it is easy to say "I love you",this is the best sentence in the world,it shows how deep your love is,because you didn't say it usually,find you love,and speak to him or her "I love you",that is a good thing for you.

That is word that sometimes leaves people tonguetight-I have sen it with some couples, they just cant say I love you they are permannently unable to say that word and even end up not finding spouses! So it is true that word is not easy to say sometimes!

I have faced this dilemma many times in my life. As an impressionable adolescent and youngster, I had a lot of romantic ideas in my mind and my idea of romance was the typical ‘lived happily ever after’ type. I liked many boys, calf-love type and thought that as is usual in the romantic fairytales, they would propose to me but none of them did. Actually, I have never had any proposal from any boy in my life! (what a pity). Then when in college, I decided enough was enough and I had to take the reins of fortune in my own hand. I intensely liked a guy and as usual, he ignored me completely. I was on the verge of desperation. All my feelers went in vain, my friends’ efforts yielded no result either. So one day, I just went up to him and told him those most wonderful yet most difficult words. As expected, he gave me the royal ignorant glance and kept off my path after that. But believe me, once those words were out of my chest, there was like no stopping me. It was as if the whole world was won by me and I had nothing to lose. I kept on pursuing him and after almost 2years, he was mine. So you see, its not as if I had won some trophy or something, but if you genuinely love someone, there is no harm in owning up. Shouldn’t let your ego stand in the way. even if you are rejected, at least you have the consolation that you had tried, otherwise you don’t know throughout your life you may have the regret that you did not tell the other person. The world is very big…even if people laugh at you, you will not be surrounded by these people all the time. you will meet strangers who will not know that you have been rejected in love. So never think about what people will think, if you love someone just go up and say so.

Some people do have a hard time saying I love you. And I dont know why. For me its really easy.LOL So I wonder what the big deal is?LOL

If it's your first time to say it to someone it's really difficult. But once you get the hang of it, it becomes quite easy. If you love the person, say it. Otherwise don't say it. It's that simple.

I know that men foudn it more difficult that we women to say I love you. Why? I dont know but the only timeI find it difficult to tell someone those three words is if indeed I dont love them. In a case liek this I tell that I like you but thats all. When I am in a relationship I enjoy telling the guy how much I do loe and care for him. I wonder why am I still single? Think I drove him away with too much love?

yes there are time that its hard to show someone that you love them ths happen when sometimes in family member. like a child to his parents most children don't show there feelings that much to their parents...I show my love and respect to my parents in action like, let say helping with house chores without being ask...I believe thats one way of saying mom, take a rest,because I'm not very vocal in saying I love you to them

yes it is ,I think to say "I love YOU " is difficult.until now I never saY " I love YOU".

I dont believe its hard to say i love you unless you dont mean it and your trying to make the person you are saying you love feel good about themselves and that you dont really love them. When a person says they love you it doesnt really mean that they love you that way they could love you as a friend or more you never know unless you ask or express the way you feel towards them and they tell you how they feel about you...If he/she is your boyfriend or girlfriend and they tell you they love you...they could be telling the truth or could be lieing ...I only tell my boyfriend i loved him when i really did and i expressed the way i felt towards him and how wonderful he was. you should never though tell someone you love them if you dont..It is not hard to tell someone you love them because if its true it will just come out or you will show you love them.

yes,i agree whit your point.it is really difficult to say "I LOVE YOU".i don't konw whether i really love her.or our love do not up to a enough depth.or saying love should in a specical situation,in that situation we may can clear saying "I LOVE YOU".maybe that is really revealing the true feelings.so i think wo don't need to try hard to say that.because saying that should not need thinking .