Soulmates
By HARLANA
@HARLANA (96)
United States
August 11, 2006 9:28pm CST
I just want to take a poll on how many of you do or don't believe in soulmates and why or why not?
7 responses
@declanp (17)
• United States
12 Aug 06
I think it depends n your definition. Another definition is "someone for whom you have a deep affinity". I believe that I have many soul mates, and I hope to meet more!
In my opinion a "soul mate" doesn't actually exist. It is a romatic thought and a nice gesture but unrealistic. Can you imagine if we all had a soul mate and one of us messed it up by being with someone else? We'd all be messed up. I believe that a soul mate is someone you choose to be with, someone you are compatable with and someone you love with every fiber of you being. I am a hopeless romantic but I am also realistic. If my wife and I were going through a rough patch I could always say I guess I married the "wrong one" or she must not be my "Soul mate" I think I could have married someone else and been very happy, but I CHOSE my husband and he CHOSE me. Stop leaving things to fate or blaming things on it. Take responsibility and decide for yourself that the one you love and the one you marry is your soul mate now and forever.
@dirtysteve (107)
• United States
12 Aug 06
Absolutely I believe in them. I found mine and couldn't be happier.
@QnAQueen (555)
• United States
12 Aug 06
i do believe in soulmates but i don't think they need to end up together in a relatonship. a soulmate can be someone who becomes a really great friend because of the level of understanding that he/she has of you and what you embody.
also, i don't think soulmates should agree with everything and have everything in common or have the same opinions all the time - that would be boring, don't you think?
@naidugopal (941)
• India
12 Aug 06
I agree to this idea of soul mates.I have to find my soulmate, but not yet. I'm thinking that it may happens after onr or two years .
@vjbmakemoney (3)
• United States
12 Aug 06
There is no doubt that soul mates exist. I believe that soul mates are people in touch with your physical needs, nutures your mental and bonds with you spirtually.
@classicaljazz (1628)
• United States
12 Aug 06
I believe that some people have soulmates but even if you are with your soulmate, the relationship requires work to keep together and stay close. I also believe that some people are ment to be single some are ok with that and some aren't but if they choose to see it, they have a purpose. We all have a purpose.