do you believe in love at the first sight?
By xingkong178
@xingkong178 (298)
China
October 3, 2007 1:08am CST
do you believe in love at the first sight?for me,i believe it,i believe that true lovers are certain from birth,they can recognize each other at the first sight.you dont known why you just feel the one in front of you is special for you.what about you?tell me your thoughts.
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@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
3 Oct 07
I believe in first sight.Everyone has an idea of the perfect someone for them and it is possible to see him/her and just know they are your soulmate.And I believe in reincarnation so when you meet your special someone, you could be reconnecting with a love from your past life.
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@yugiho (28)
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5 Oct 07
If you sit silently and peacefully think you would create a picture of somebody special in your mind.Her movements,her grace,her smile,her eyes,looks,character...everything. We always say,that dont just see faces and love,its infactuation.But if you have a picture of someone in your mind,that means you would be in love a first dream-site.Its real too.Faces that we see are actually the representation of our character.The curves,the way of look,the grace....so its not just face but everything comes along with it.
@rogue13xmen13 (14402)
• United States
5 Oct 07
Take it from someone who did not believe in love at all. Love is real. Falling in love is real. I have and I hope that he feels the same way too.
@christineli (525)
• Philippines
5 Oct 07
I don't believe that you can love a person the first time you meet him/her. I believe that love is about the whole person and not just the appearance. What can happen at first sight is, you'll like the person very much at once, and then that "like" blossomed into "love" as you get to know the person. You just thought that its "love" at first sight because that's what you felt after knowing the person. Love is something more deep than physical appearance. And its only physical appearance that's being considered at first sight. So for me, love is something that we develop over time as we get to know the person gradually.
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@milkfish (371)
• Philippines
5 Oct 07
Personally, I don't believe in love at first sight. You only met a person for the first time, how could you love him/her right at that moment? I think it is just a matter of physical attraction. I believe that love is a decision to make, its not just pure attraction or emotions. You love somebody because you decided to fall in love him/her. And to love someone is a big decision to make, it takes time.
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@cloud_kicker_32 (4635)
• United States
9 Oct 07
Well..let me tell you..I laways believed in it..but it never happened untill 2 weeks ago..one of my best friends..introduced me to her brother..and from the moment he shok my hand i got lightening bolts threw my body and overwelmed with butterflies..we went to get soemthing at the store and everytime his arm touched mine..i had such intense and overwelming sense of chemical zaps and i would lose my breath just looking at him..and the first time he kissed me..i felt the fireworks..and we havent had much time apart since..and i know he has feelings for me..just not sure if its as intens of me lol..but i can tell you..i know Lust..and i dont wear my heart on my sleeve..and i havent been in love for more than 6 years before..i just know hes the one..at least for me..plzz everyone cross your figers lol..but yes..i do believe..and it can happen to anyone..:)
@shak143 (1280)
• India
7 Oct 07
I don't believe in love at first sight considering that it's only your first meeting and you don't still know anything about that each other.it's jsut an attraction only which people will think as love.there is very thin line between love and attraction which one should realize by there own.it's not possible to explain about it.
@anantvyas2306 (155)
• India
8 Oct 07
I don't think there is anything like love at first sight.I believe that its just an attraction.And when you start knowing more about the person's nature,you may find that this person is not for you.The Looks never remain same for whole life and in the first sight,everyone see appearance only.And also,its difficult to know about anyone's nature in first meet.
-AV
@shameh1202 (610)
• Philippines
6 Oct 07
Practically, I don't believe in love at first sight considering that it's only your first meeting and you don't still know anything about that person. But after sometime, I'm somewhat convinced that "love at first sight" might be true in some aspects.
As we all know that humans are the highest class of animals. Since animals are not social beings like us, they only use their sense of smell in order for them to know if that is their food or their mate (do you get the point that I am trying to explain). We human beings could also determine if that someone is for us. Only that we are social beings that's why we are so focused into "getting to know each other" before committing ourselves.
Another point that I would want to share is that I happen to watch a local television program in our country about real love stories. The host then ended the episode saying that "there are actually two types of love, the BOOM & the BANG". The boom refers to "love at first sight" wherein we could already know that we love that person even on our first meeting. And the bang refers to love that could possible develop after sometime of being together.
@Snowleopard (21)
• China
22 Oct 07
I believe it.Beacause ifall in love with my girlfriend at the first sight.I think the thing is the most beautiful thing in life.