Do you feel bad when your best friend says bad?

A negative comment usually creates a friction in our egos. And saying something bad behind your back hurts more especially if its coming from a bestfriend. But great_cena, I think bro there are reasons to that also that we might consider. It could be that the bestfriend has been trying to communicate with the other friend who refuses or perhaps doesn't have the time to listen, so things left unsaid, matters unsettled. Or it could also be that the other friend had done something wrong, also unaware of it and keeps on doing it that might have irritated the bestfriend furthermore. If ever I come across this situation and realizes that its my bestfriend doing so, I would have to confront my bestfriend first, not in a manner that I will letting off steam that would worsen the present scenario but I will give him/her the benefit of the doubt and let him/her air his/her side of the story and from there we will try to iron differences that we can still mend or perhaps consider forgiveness but next time try not to divulge any personal stuff to that friend as much as possible. Therefore saving what can be salvage of the friendship and still giving the person a second chance, everyone deserves it.

of course i will feel bad about it but i know it always happen but the best thing ill do is not to turn him down through silence whenever we will meet. i really dont like this type of friends and that only proves that his not really the best of friends. ill try to ignore him in the best ways i can.