How can we make our wives\husbands happy

Pakistan
October 3, 2007 8:57am CST
after marriage we try our best o make our wives hapy and our wivestry to make us happy in every moment, right i am not married but i know their are lot of marriage person here as a member so i want them to share the way to make their partener happy. right i have a fiance and we try to happy to each other with the sharing of nice talks and sending gifts to each other what is your opinion about your Wife/husband or fiance to make them happy
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8 responses
@jothis (518)
• India
8 Oct 07
Ya Being a happy couple is Lucky. Keep everything shared and that will be the beast way to make happy your partner. Gifts are good but I think being a part of each other that will be the biggest Gift.
@infoguy (210)
• India
4 Oct 07
Real Happiness in a relationship is mere understanding...Understnad ur partner best....If your sacrifice of anything would make you both live happily sacrifice it....Share all your thoughts happenings feelings emotions whatever it is with each other...Dnt hide things...Be open and Loving .....All the best for your happy life
• United States
3 Oct 07
The most important thing is to be comfortable with one's self. If one does not have any self esteem and does not love themself, one cannot fully love others. When we ourselves are at a point where we have a little bit of contentment or inner peace, our spouses will also be happy. Thinking poorly of oneself is very distracting. In fact they say people who think poorly of themselves are equally as self centered as people who are conceited and think they are the best thing in the world because both are involved in constantly thinking about themselves (just one positively, one negatively). We tend to project what we hate about ourselves on other people and blame our spouses for things they don't even do. So i guess that is my answer, when you are happy inside you, one is not only easier to live with but we naturally consider the welfare of others especially our spouse versus constantly thinking what they are doing for us.
• Malaysia
4 Oct 07
Happiness is a very subjective matter, it can be measured/ can be done in many ways. There are several ways to make your spouse/couple happy. First you need to know what he/she likes and dislike, what I mean here is in evey aspect, life, food, dress, attitude, etc. Once you have master his/ her behaviour, then it is easy for you to make his/ her happy in any way that you like. Some time happinest can be created with Zero Cost, only need effort, honesty, sincerity and understanding. The most important thing is be patient for every move you make. best result will come with a patient people. Good Luck friend.
@eftychiap (349)
• Cyprus
4 Oct 07
I think that understanding each other is what makes our spouse happy. Believe in each other and being supportive is what strenghtens the love between the two. Small details like giving a flower, making a cake, say a couple of kind words, or buy a small present to your partner, make the difference in the relationship. Gifts however and other tangible things are not everything. There are people who believe they can "buy" love by giving presents. The meaning behind the present or just the action is what matters. What is important is that the things you do for the other person so as to make him happy, must come from your heart. Whatever we do just represent ourselves and our love.
• China
4 Oct 07
hi,man,i always think this question deeply.maybe the best way to give them is to share everything happened in your life with them. I tried it everyday with my wife.A good way !you can try it..
• China
3 Oct 07
Hello,friend, In my point of view,the problems is not how many realistic things you give your wife,love baseds on money or material will not last longer(this is only my personal opinion).the most important is that ,you make ur wife u love her,by doing some small but great things ,for example youu can help her to do some chores help her at any time .when she is in difficulties,you give her spirtual comfort ,make her know that you are always on her side...(this is only my personal opinion)...;-)
@writersedge (22563)
• United States
3 Oct 07
Every once in awhile, my husband tells me he loves me. Every once in awhile, he gives me a back rub. At least once a week, he does something because he wants to, not because he has to. Just being thoughtful and kind are very nice. Good luck to you and your fiance. Choosing the right person to begin with is your best bet. Take care