would you rather be a widow than a divorcee?

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fall out boy sure made my world a bit confusing with their line "wouldn't you rather be a widow than a divorcee?" in their song TAKE OVER, THE BREAK'S OVER. and i was just wondering.. what would you rather be? a widow or a divorcee? seeing your ex-wife/hubby dead or with another partner? me? i really don't know.. i'm not yet married.