An odd guy make my friend brokenhearted

Indonesia
October 4, 2007 5:20am CST
I have a friend, we've been friends since I was in elementary school. She is pretty, kind, unselfish, feminine, thin, pretty, etc, and she is a model. Many people seems her as a perfect girl. (me too) The thing is, she never find a good luck in love. The last one is a guy with weird behaviour. He still shows up although he and my friend had broke up, and he still ask my friend to go shopping, etc with him, and also he still saying sweet things to my friend, but when my friend asked him to tie back, he always refuse with many reasons. This guy is just so weird but my friend still love her, we have discussed about this many times, but we still confused about what to do... Do you have any suggestion about how to handle things like this? Thx
2 responses
@nengs10 (3180)
• Philippines
4 Oct 07
I must agree with you. The guy is really weird. Should he be man enough, he ought to be true to himself. Look at the situation now, your dear friend is on the verge of confusion. In my case, I will just leave the guy alone. I will stop our contacts and communication railways. I can't manage to have him with me. He has such a disgusting attitude towards girls. He should get a life.
• Indonesia
4 Oct 07
My friend is trying to stop the communication with him, but the guy never try to stop, he keep send her emails, messages, telephones, and even go to my friend's house every day, and thats make my friend lost her priority and started to go with him again. I feel like I want to hit the guy with a very big hammer to make him stop the annoying acts.
@milkfish (371)
• Philippines
12 Oct 07
I suggest that you advise your friend to cut all means of communication with this guy and forget about him. This is to protect her from being broken hearted again with him. A part of your friend is still hoping that the guy will commit to come back to her again. This is agony on her part because it seems that the guy has no plans to do that. He is just just her to satisfy his ego. It will be better if your friend forget about the guy and go on with her life as if that guy does not exist. Someday, she will meet a much better guy that she deserve.